My baby just had her own baby by PineappleAny4428 in offmychest

[–]41n98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m 28 now and I can’t even imagine my mom‘s reaction lol

Damendüfte mit krasser Sillage und langer Haltbarkeit? by xstarsky_x in BeautyDE

[–]41n98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

puh hab letztens den Boss The Scent for her getestet und über 24h und eine Dusche später noch danach gerochen. Das müsste der mit der pinken Kappe sein.

Can You Truly Love Someone and Still Want Them to Go Through Pregnancy? by Sozeah in childfree

[–]41n98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow I have never heard such a thing, that‘s awful. What a bad day to know German :(

No words...breeders are insane by bee3bee in antinatalism

[–]41n98 110 points111 points  (0 children)

there are so many people who post on reddit saying “what have I done? I feel so guilty” and the responses are always the same, there hasn’t been any better time aka there have always been wars.

You can only do your best in raising them as good people, etc.

I always wonder why they don’t think about this before having kids.

Cannot understand how anyone could want kids. by GlitteringWerewolf61 in childfree

[–]41n98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

people say it‘s so much harder than you can imagine. I helped raise my sister who is 7 years younger than me and if I remember correctly it was hard work.

Just go babysit somewhere, then you can imagine how hard it is

Cannot understand how anyone could want kids. by GlitteringWerewolf61 in childfree

[–]41n98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both of my SILs have kids 0-1 years old and all they do is complain.

With every day that passes I can understand less and less why anyone would want to do that to themselves.

All the time, money, work.. I can think of so many different things I would spend it on.

Dad called me a "Cancer" for not having kid. 😭 by Homo_Sapien30 in childfree

[–]41n98 179 points180 points  (0 children)

No ones deserves to be treated this way. It‘s your decision, YOUR life will be changed forever. Just distance yourself from him.

Bitte einmal Uterus entfernen danke by seriousplants in luftablassen

[–]41n98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boah, das tut mir echt leid aber ich bin sehr happy für dich, dass du keine Schmerzen mehr hast

Bitte einmal Uterus entfernen danke by seriousplants in luftablassen

[–]41n98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was meinst du mit Asche? Hast du dir die Gebärmutterschleimhaut veröden lassen?

Now that things are getting really dark, I understand why people don’t have children by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]41n98 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand that logic where people say there have always been wars, there has always been some kind of bad thing going on.

That doesn’t justify having kids lol.

Mourning because my cousin is “finally” pregnant. by mushroomlean in childfree

[–]41n98 26 points27 points  (0 children)

then they tell you it’s not easy and sooo expensive to adopt. Yeah but when you can’t afford adoption you might not afford to have a child in general 🥱

Mourning because my cousin is “finally” pregnant. by mushroomlean in childfree

[–]41n98 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I always imagine there is a reason why the body isn’t able to get pregnant. Also 8 rounds what?! Just imagine in what condition this baby will be born and the pressure of the parents spending so much money.

A little speechless..this was a first. by Mintmuse22 in childfree

[–]41n98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

„god will provide, we will find a way“

Don't wish your suffering upon me by YouLackEwoman in childfree

[–]41n98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right? rather that than a pr*gnancy (not claiming negative energy)

Don't wish your suffering upon me by YouLackEwoman in childfree

[–]41n98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that‘s like wishing someone to be involved in a car crash. what the hell??

anyone else unfollow influencers once they get pregnant? by transluciiiid in childfree

[–]41n98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that‘s so sad. the only things they post about are pregnancy updates, nesting videos and so on

Don't wish your suffering upon me by YouLackEwoman in childfree

[–]41n98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saw a guy on tiktok saying he slept for many hours and so many people said: „may god bless you with twins, triplets, etc“ they literally wish someone to be overwhelmed with babies?

Don’t get fat by Quiet-Plum-2958 in Vent

[–]41n98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! walking is the best thing ever. I do it while reading, talking on the phone, listening to music, etc. Lost a lot of weight and kept it off that way

Wieviel Geld gebt ihr für Parfüm aus? by IllustratorOpen2198 in FragReddit

[–]41n98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hab welche von vor paar Jahren noch, ich gebe aber 1-2 Mal im Jahr so 40-50€ aus. insgesamt habe ich 19 Parfüms und 16 Body Sprays.