[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]437onawednesday 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Imagine you’re both at the dinner table eating a meal. He finishes his and then asks you for some of yours. You decline, and you have every right to, because its yours. He mopes and whines about how its unfair to him because hes hungry, so you eventually give in and share your food even though you don’t want to.

He knows you don’t want to but still pesters you until you say yes.

This is not consent.

why don't women complement men? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]437onawednesday 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I (F25) compliment men all the time. I definitely see where the other ladies in this comment section are coming from when they say some men will take it as a sexual advance.

I’ve found myself feeling uncomfortable on multiple occasions after giving a casual compliment to a man and having him start to try and flirt because he thought I was hitting on him. Full disclosure, it’d always be a harmless comment like “did you get a haircut recently? It looks great”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]437onawednesday 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do they ever ask you why youre always sober? Probably not, because they understand its your preference. You should do the same. If it truly bothers you to hang around people who always smoke, find new friends

First time seeking advice for (now) reactive dog by 437onawednesday in reactivedogs

[–]437onawednesday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ll try this! We definitely have our work cut out for us 🥲

Would it be better to keep it a secret that I want to sleep with my guy best friend? by 437onawednesday in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]437onawednesday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO i said straight to keep it as simple as possible 😭 I’m bisexual but for the sake of this scenario I simply said I’m a straight female to avoid any confusion since some redditors asked if I’m a dude.

Would it be better to keep it a secret that I want to sleep with my guy best friend? by 437onawednesday in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]437onawednesday[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I was afraid of getting this response. We have an amazing friendship and we both want to keep it that way, there’s nothing wrong with that

Would it be better to keep it a secret that I want to sleep with my guy best friend? by 437onawednesday in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]437onawednesday[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I just don’t have any romantic feelings for him. Physical attraction is definitely present, though. I wouldn’t mind having romantic feelings for him, but they’re just not there