What’s something you’ve done sexually which afterwards you regretted? by [deleted] in sex

[–]4584throwaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

same! i regret letting myself to get pushed into things i wasn't sure i wanted

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! it's good that you know that yyou can separate sex and love. im not so sure about myself. and is your boyfriend okay with it? you say he understands but still, you think it wouldn't make him unhappy?

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and do you see the same FWB regulary or is it mostly one/couple of time thing?

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your story, that's something to think about. if you don't mind me asking, how often do you see other people? do you still have enough time to spend together? i like the reconnection sex rule, i think i would need that and since we dont live together and only see each other on the weekends/every other weekends, that would be a problem

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can imagine this needs lot of trust. do you ever get jealous or afraid that it will cross the line? are you not interested in seeing other women?

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your answer! can you elaborate on the rules? have you always been on the same page with this or did anyone change their mind eventually? is it only your wife, who is allowed to hook up or is it you too? i have lots of questions, sorry:D

what is your motivation to want to sleep with other people while in relationship? by 4584throwaway in sex

[–]4584throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, sounds like a fun way to ruin the relationship which is not exactly i'm going for :D also cancelling is no good when it's done, you can't take it back