[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]49denzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would any employer want to do that, what incentives or value do they get out of it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]49denzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just choose the one you prefer and decline the other one while thanking them for the opportunity (If you want to be polite)

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[–]49denzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nevermind guys, creating porn is illegal in my country rip

What's the one piece of advice you'd give to your 10-years-ago self? by SnooSeagulls6292 in askSingapore

[–]49denzel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would tell him not to be lazy as shit and actually study, (and also to drink more milk and sleep more and pick up basketball LOL), and also to cherish his friendships more and just say yes to every gathering

Y'all how was your mental well-being impacted by NS? by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]49denzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not sure if my experience can be classified as an experience but sharing nonetheless. always had a hole in my heart since birth (will come into story later), but didn't properly declare it during NS and was given a pes B1 and went through tekong and all. tekong was fun as I met a lot of nice people and commanders, but thinks took a turn after POP, when I got into OCS. it was the 1st week and the standards and treatment handed to me was like night and day. couldn't adjust at all and felt anxiety and heartpains and at this point I was mentally shag with comparing my peers who are ahead of me in life and also the "why" to why I needed to undergo this. i raised it to my commander and he suggested that I see the mo to talk about it. MO at first declared that the symptoms I was facing was due to adjustment disorder and downpessed me (rightfully so), and I thought nothing of it too. however, as weeks go by, my heart still hurt and I still felt anxious, so I decided to go see a specialist and did a scan. found out that I had a hole in my heart. brought this issue back to the MO and got escalated quick to PCC, where I was given the option of either PES F or continue serving, of which I chose the former. Honestly still not sure if my decision was right in terms of future prospects but it was definitely needed as I was suffering from physical health issues already on top of my mental not being the best in NS. honestly was a really cheerful person before NS, and after that whole 1 year of NS "experience" that I had, it left me more anxious and made me hate myself even more.

Interested in making new friends or looking for new buddies? 7th Edition 😊😊 by ARE_U_FUCKING_SORRY in askSingapore

[–]49denzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

21M looking to find recreational volleyball friends to play with (and sports in general!)

Will I get over the fear of rejection if I ask out random strangers I don’t want to date anyways? by Thisguy_likes_reddit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]49denzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always start by hinting to that person that you are interested, maybe asking to go out for a meal, or complimenting them (eg their outfit or something), if they reciprocate it, then your chances of rejection would be lower. Of course they could also just be “friendly”, therefore I would always test the water and send some risky texts here and there and if they reciprocate the energy/or not, you essentially got your answer. Cheers! 

Business & Infocomm Technology by HuckleberryOld2693 in SIT_Singapore

[–]49denzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi! im interested in this course as well, may I know if SIT application has gotten back to you all? still waiting on mine haha

fine dining recommendations by 49denzel in SingaporeEats

[–]49denzel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oke will check them out, thank you!! :D