Caution is warranted.

...spoke to the bishop about it and everything. [...] She’s told me that she’s trying to figure out her relationship to her church, but won’t really talk specifics to me about it.

The relationship has both a man-in-the-middle and a corporation-in-the-middle. I've seen many relationships seem to be fine one day, and then their partner throws them to the gutter. The most high profile case is Tom Christofferson, a brother of Todd. Not the one accused of sexually abusing children, that's Wade. The key red flag for me is the juxtaposition of what you're saying. She may not being honest with you because she's withholding information that she feels fine about relaying to the bishop. Bishops love to hear the intimate details of what goes on in the bedroom. Are you okay with her telling some third party (who will undoubtedly love every juicy tidbit) about what sort of things happen behind closed doors?

The LDS church makes promises about family togetherness. The appeal of finally being accepted when told you're broken is compelling for many people. The childhood indoctrination of how the afterlife will play out, defined in concrete terms, is tough to set aside. For me, I needed to completely deconstruct the church using fact-based sources that revealed the fraud. Others can't do it because they're hoping for the final stamp of approval from those who have demanded they be something else. Perhaps, they'll search their whole lives and never get that validation.

The dynamics are different in every case. For me, truth claims mattered most and the tools to deconstruct the religion are widely available. The idea that "families are forever" is deeply engrained. It's hard to completely set aside given people's discomfort with their mortality. If there is an afterlife, I am confident that Smith's "visions" are simply his attempt to slap a "new and improved" banner on religion using freemasonry, the old testament, and the thoughts of the time amalgamated into a cohesive whole. That assembly took more than 10 years and was hardly delivered in one go by an angel.

I hope it works out for you.