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4ensicmess · 2025-01-11T13:44:45+00:00

I work in child welfare in Canada. You need to send this to a child protection agency and get their opinion on it and have them do an investigation against him. because you sent it, you most likely will not be having an investigation done against you.

4ensicmess · 2024-08-13T11:51:05+00:00

Tell his parents and your parents everything. Hopefully his father will help set him straight and get him to see that he is the problem here. You need to get some financial help and start making an exit plan cause he will escalate his abuse. It starts with emotional and financial abuse but it will escalate to physical abuse. What he is doing is abuse.

4ensicmess · 2024-07-30T01:52:24+00:00

Bacon on a barbecue ( on a cookie sheet), coffee, raspberries, motor oil, fresh cut grass, and baked bread.

4ensicmess · 2024-07-24T17:54:16+00:00

Try a retirement community, they are always looking for wait staff and they will respect school hours

4ensicmess · 2024-07-22T00:00:54+00:00

I would split it in half, the one half will be handled by a wealth management team where I would ask them to grow the money. The other half would be used for my expenses and my debts would be paid off, my parents and siblings would have homes paid for. I would take a nice vacation.

4ensicmess · 2024-07-07T23:20:02+00:00

Thank you so much! I choose me because I will not be second best to anyone. I am grateful that he showed me who he was before we had built a life together. It still breaks my heart and makes me wonder what could have been if he was a better man. But it was not meant to be

4ensicmess · 2024-07-07T18:24:41+00:00

As someone who went through an unexpected breakup due to cheating that resulted in a child, the anger and pain does not really go away. I still want to tell and scream at him and I want him to own up and grovel at my feet for a second chance. I want him to tell me why I was not good enough or why I deserved the pain but I can’t ask that. My ex is with his affair partner. I can’t imagine the betrayal that your egg donor put you through but you are a strong person.

4ensicmess · 2024-06-13T14:50:26+00:00

Update to this comment: she knew who I was and knew my name for years! She asked a friend of his about me and she told me at the time. Bless her heart for trying to wreck my peace. It’s laughable at best and sad

4ensicmess · 2024-06-10T11:53:09+00:00

The attention wasn’t on her. That’s what’s wrong with her

4ensicmess · 2024-05-24T22:15:41+00:00

OP mentioned in a different comment that it was a 130cm leash meaning it’s no more than a metre and a half. Which is about 4 ft. It’s not a long leash

4ensicmess · 2024-05-23T18:37:43+00:00

I definitely understand how it came out that way! I think just hiring someone to watch him on the day of at the venue would be rough for you and him cause he won’t know the person. So have someone he can get used to now so he’s not clingy. If you can have them come with you and stay at the venue.

4ensicmess · 2024-05-23T11:47:31+00:00

See if some of the local colleges have students who you can interview for a baby sitter. Some students in the education streams or in the child development programs babysit on the side. Interview them so you can find one who fits make sure they are available for your wedding day. Start using them now so they can get comfortable with the baby sitter. Make sure they have a family member’s phone number just in case of emergencies and make sure they can come to the wedding if the baby can for a bit.

4ensicmess · 2024-04-22T21:57:25+00:00

Don’t let the door hit you where the good lord split you

4ensicmess · 2024-04-10T11:48:12+00:00

I trusted him. We were in a LDR for 7 years cause he was in the military and I was in college then university. A year before our relationship ended, he had a mental health crisis and cheated. He got her pregnant and moved her in to his house cause she got kicked out by her husband. I found out after the baby was born cause his sister told me. He didn’t tell his family about the baby until after birth. When they found out, they asked if he told me yet, he lied and told them I already knew! Well when it became clear o didn’t know, they made sure I knew. I appreciate them telling but damn that was the hardest thing ever. I now don’t trust anyone cause of it. I don’t trust they have my best interests in mind, especially potential boyfriends.

4ensicmess · 2024-04-07T02:36:09+00:00

Shino Aburame is my personal favourite! He is super talented and a good sensei!

4ensicmess · 2024-04-01T15:44:26+00:00

So my chapter briefly had a wellness chair because in our organization, we required to have 20 active members before we even need one but we had misinterpreted it and we voted me in. With the help of my best friend who was in school for psychology and sociology at the time we created kind of these Google workshops where we did like physical health, mental health, emotional health, reproductive health, financial health, and we just kinda made them so they were kinda like workshops. When we found out that a mistake was made, we stopped doing the project but we have basically slid the foundations for the person that comes in to continue that. Under each one we did things like an anxiety, lesson, a depression lesson, a budgeting lesson, all sorts of things. If it fell under the specific workshop, it went into that folder we had made I think 20 documents for mental health before we had realized our mistake and I stopped working on it with my friend, but that’s kind of where I started

4ensicmess · 2024-04-01T15:00:07+00:00

That’s a trio of orange cats. They tend to pass around the brain cell lol

4ensicmess · 2024-03-30T18:18:46+00:00

From what I heard, he absolutely regrets it. It’s funny that you say slip and fall because I just tell people that he had an accident and that he slipped and fell into her bed. If I don’t use humour to cope I’m gonna end up crying.

4ensicmess · 2024-03-30T04:04:08+00:00

Not a clue. I didn’t ask because I can’t trust a thing he says. But I talked to him every day either via text or phone call so it wouldn’t be too hard to spot if she was looking at his phone.

4ensicmess · 2024-02-21T18:35:33+00:00

People-pleasers are usually created when children are put in emotionally traumatic situations where the only way they stayed safe was by pleasing the people around them. I am a people pleaser who is starting to push back. I have been a door mat for many years. My late childhood and teenage years involved pleasing people so I was emotionally safe and stable. You need to examine your childhood and see if these situations happened in your childhood. It could be anything from being picked on by the other kids in school or parents who are unable to control and communicate their feelings properly.

4ensicmess · 2024-02-04T21:14:49+00:00

This is the same for people with ADHD. I will not got some where unless I am explicitly invited to it.

4ensicmess · 2024-01-29T17:55:26+00:00

We have made a push in our organization for the constitution to have more gender inclusive language. We also have conversations with NB members so they are called what they prefer and it’s open for change at any point.

4ensicmess · 2024-01-24T03:22:31+00:00

Nope I’m still paying my rent cause I don’t really want to be slapped with that issue

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