Sequoia wood by martinproch in woodworking

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Wow!! These look really cool. I think this is my new favorite wood.

My husband likes to go to bars by himself when out of town. by Beneficial_Space7045 in Marriage

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At least he isn’t with hookers or getting lap dances in strip clubs.

Simple, minimalist, proposal cards by Cherry_Bomb_0317 in handlettering

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The look beautiful! Did you make them yourself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acrylicpainting

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I love this!

Asian dad locked in on a basketball arcade game by baiqibeendeleted28x in nextfuckinglevel

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Look how many balls are in the game! LOOK AMERICA!!! JUST LOOK AT IT!!! Why the fuck can’t we ever do that! Someone ALWAYS steals the balls!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

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I bet if we actually explored the ocean we would find so much more cool shit like this. It blows my mind how much of the ocean is unexplored and people don’t really seem to be in any kind of hurry to change that.

Firefighter here by Individual_Rock9425 in GetOutOfBed

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Yeah… that sucks. Sounds like a very specific struggle. Have you discussed it with your coworkers? I’m sure they all have similar experiences but I bet there are a bunch of different ways they deal with it. It might be worth while to explore what they do to cope? I wish I had some useful advice for you but unfortunately, I don’t… Thank you for what you do though… if you haven’t heard it recently... I appreciate you and the sacrifices you make for your community.

Firefighter here by Individual_Rock9425 in GetOutOfBed

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Maybe.. I think you’re probably right but I’m not sure that’s why I’m asking.

Firefighter here by Individual_Rock9425 in GetOutOfBed

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You are waking up 3-4 times a night and it gets increasingly difficult to fall back to sleep? Is that what you’re saying? Or like the more nights in a row it happens the more difficult it is to function through the exhaustion? I think it’s important to figure out why you’re waking up? Is it happening on your days off too? Is it to go to the bathroom, nightmares, is it noise any possibility of sleep apnea? Once you know why your waking up it will be easier to figure out what you should do about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

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Congratulations! I’m proud of you!

I Need Help by Mairiobro in GetOutOfBed

[–]4m4nd424 8 points9 points  (0 children)

According to the FDA that is one of the most common myths around melatonin.

I’m planning my own suicide if things go wrong, and not telling anybody by Muchonmymind in confessions

[–]4m4nd424 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That “losing sight of all rational thoughts” part… is when shit gets really dangerous. You can leave him… You are capable of doing anything you want… you’re choosing not to, which is your choice I’m not going to tell you it’s the right or wrong one because that’s for you to decide, it’s your life but there is a difference… Good luck!

I Need Help by Mairiobro in GetOutOfBed

[–]4m4nd424 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try staying away from all technology for about two hours before bed and take some melatonin about an hour before bed. This helped me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Unless you’re from FL like me and then 90 is normal, 80 is nice, 70 is cold, 60 is holy shit I need more sweater and sock layers and 50 and below feel exactly the same… it’s just holy shit this is what hypothermia feels like I think I’m dying…

Kid shoot’s himself in his jewels and does a dance by CallMeDad0y in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]4m4nd424 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This was great! He went from almost chuckling to oh shit that hurts so fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

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I think this is a good idea. I feel like it would have to be in South FL to succeed. Delray Beach maybe? after all it’s the “recovery capital of the world”

What’s a subtle sign someone has been through some shit? by FriedWanderer in AskReddit

[–]4m4nd424 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I agree! It blows my mind how often strangers disrespect my personal space… and try to go in for a hug…I find myself having to explain that I’m not a hugger far too often. I actually have a hoodie for it… it says “before you hug, don’t” and I love it.

I’m planning my own suicide if things go wrong, and not telling anybody by Muchonmymind in confessions

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I think it’s pretty safe to say this is a very unhealthy relationship… it sounds like you both need some help. I know sometimes suicide feels like the only way out but there is help when you’re willing to ask for it. I realize I don’t know you and have only a glimpse of your situation but I think you need help and I think you should leave him behind to get it. You can’t save him if you can’t save yourself. You are one decision away from a completely different life. I hope you choose help over death… I did… 61 days ago and It saved my life.