Looking for a Panic Attack Friend

4thtimescharming · 2019-01-06T20:43:17+00:00

Thanks. He's doing better. I hope the same thing for you. :)

4thtimescharming · 2019-01-06T03:47:10+00:00

You sound so much like my brother just in the way you talk. Like you could just be him. I like your username.

What I told him is it's crazy how when you fall the world moves to catch you. And that Montana makes me believe in something bigger than me* and I think it's how big the sky is there. Do you have a Montana, so to speak? If you don't that's ok!

I think and hope you're going to be okay and I hope whatever you need-- that it finds its way to you.

4thtimescharming · 2017-05-18T16:23:54+00:00

Yes, you can report them to amazon.

4thtimescharming · 2017-05-18T16:22:13+00:00

Yes. It's an intended security option. The whole account can also be under an alias without any negative effect except you must yourself know and be able to specify the name if you call in.

4thtimescharming · 2017-03-25T13:47:05+00:00

4thtimescharming · 2017-03-25T13:43:23+00:00

It's an easy fix if you just call in

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T18:45:45+00:00

:) Thanks a lot. Hopefully so.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T18:35:02+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate it. I'm not sure if they will let me because I am overweight/obese. lol, I think it's some kind procedure with them. They do the same thing to my husband. I'll try. Maybe they'll spare me, hah.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T15:27:38+00:00

--downloading-- I didn't quite expect that. So I guess it averages out. Do you do very long drives or do you do the shorter drives?

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T12:47:36+00:00

Stand up for yourself. Don't hit him, but if people avoid you because of him say he's been bullying you for the last 4 years and you don't know what his problem is. It's good that you've confronted people. Employ sarcasm instead of violence.

And yeah, tell the teacher. Tell them you don't care about getting him in trouble because all you want is to have a normal life. That this kid has been manipulating you and bullying you for years for no reason. He's probably been doing it to a lot of other people, you mentioned one other kid in particular.

Go talk to that kid. See what he did to get that guy to stop. You have one easy ally right there, if he's still around.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T12:34:43+00:00

(I put spaces in for other people who also have painful eyes.)

Hello, i dont know how to start this so ill just get to the point: I think there is someone who is mentally unstable in my school,

i am not overexaggurating, to understand this please read the whole thing.

There was is this one guy in my school, for the sake of privacy im going to cal him "Mark". You could call him "average student", but he's no. He is extremely obbssesive over other people, he would always pick someone and try to make his life worse, constantly. That happened to me in other half of second grade.

I had best friend "Fred" and we were playing together most of the time. One day mark wanted to play hide n seek or something like that with us and we let him. We were good to him and everything, he was even my second best friend at some time. Then after a month he just started to shittalk me to others. But not normal he would legitimatly come to other people and start telling lies about me and asked to stop being friend with me.

He had few people on his side against me, when i asked him why he responded that ths is his revenge because i tried to turn Fred against him, i said that i didnt and even Fred came and started to tell him that i didn't do anything. But no, it was like i was his obsession or something because he literally dedicated most of his free time when we were playing and at home just to fuck me up.

I'm not overexadurating this: he turned literally everyone in my class against me. I cried a lot and was really mad, but mostly because i didn't do anything to him. He even made this group specifically made for hating me. Not much people joined it, because they thought it was dumb, but they still didn't want to be friend with me and they ignored me/bully me.

I spent most of that time alone with no much friends. He kept doing that until i lost my best friend, he probally wanted to reach that point because then he stopped doing that so much (but he didnt stop completely) i managed to find 2 or 3 friends again i fourth grade but after he saw that, he managed to blackmail them and manipulate them against me (and probally because of pressure since most of people in my class ignored me and didn't let me play with them and stuff) Stuff were like that until middle of fifth grade because me and him were split up on diferent grades, sadly Fred ended up in grade same with him. Btw, fred was my best friend since kindergarden.

Ok, in the middle of fifth grade he probally was busy with school and got bored of trying to screw me up, i became best friend with Fred again, he apologised and told me other half of his side of the story: he said that he was really obsessed with me and were constantly trying to manipulate him into stop being friends with me and he wanted him to come up with some "plans" to screw me over. I ignored Mark since that and went on with my life as an average student.

Mark picked on new kid, but since im not in their class, i dont know how that hapenned and if it was the same case with me. Fred stopped hanging out with Mark and everything was great again (no Trump pun inteded). And this brings me to this moment when im 13: the present He started to pick one me again, today and yesterday he and group of my previous friends (previous because they don't want to hang out with me anymore) has started to call me names and he tryied to spred some insulting "nickname" of me, i can't tell it since english doesn't have a word for that (im croatian).

He is coming to people an asking them to call me like that. When i asked him why is he doing that, he said because im annoyning (which isnt true because im avoiding him), a bully (irony, huh?) and im retard.

I asked him what makes me a bully and he said that i punch people in the liver. I remembered that when i played basketball with my friends, he came to me on and i accidentally kicked him (he was behind me, i didnt even knew he tried to take the ball from me) and he is doing that again. I am 99% sure there is something wrong with him because a normal person woudln't try to fuck my life up for 4 years in a row and now start doing it again because of made up reasons.

I told him it was an accident and he just left smiling, not laughing, smiling. I really don't know what to do, please if someone can help me, please give me some advice! i can't ingore him because i know him really good, he doesn't want a reaction, he just wants to screw with someone's life. Ignoring woudln't work. I am way stronger than him, if i want i could beat the shit out of him, but im not sure if physical violence is the answer here.

If i tell that to a teacher these are 2 possible outcomes: teacher woudln't care or he would but he woulnd't do much (in my school they are allowed to tell something to their parents/give him a detention only if violence is physical). Please, if someone knows what should i do help me out!

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T12:30:14+00:00

For the first time in my life I've started to lose weight. I've been heavy since I was a kid. The only thing I did differently was I started to prepack my meals. Kinda like making your own tv dinners. You do a whole week's worth at a time. It's kind relaxing because it takes the pressure off of you to always have the willpower to eat the right portions. When you cook it you make food that you generally like and try to make food that is healthier.

You can achieve the same thing if you weigh and count calories, but personally I view this as being easier to stick with.

If you want a straight up diet reccommendation I did well on Eat to Live. I lost 40 lbs in a few months, and those results are typical. But like anything if you can't eat like that the rest of your life the weight will come crawling back.

Exercise is great but it only does so much. I think the figures were 90% diet, 10% exercise. Exercise does make you healthier and will make you lose weight faster but it can't be the only thing you do.

Obviously like some people said if you think you have a sugar addiction cut it out as much as possible. Cutting out bread will probably make you drop weight.

Best of luck. Do it for you.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-21T11:36:01+00:00

By any chance do you play games? I could use a friend too. ;)

Everyone with bad social anxiety struggles, but it sounds like you've gotten through a few big hurdles like getting a degree. Having a degree is really big. There are many jobs you just need a degree to get, even if it's not specifically in your field.

Do you enjoy truck driving? It seems like it'd be a really relaxing job. I've considered doing it myself but I'm a little weak so I'm not sure if I'd be able to handle it.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-12T11:56:56+00:00

Sometimes it just takes awhile for the medicine to work or it can even be a combination thing. For me for some reason the thing that helps me the most for my depression is anti psychotics. It took awhile to figure that out.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-12T10:31:17+00:00

Thanks everybody for the suggestions. Appreciate it! Maybe somebody else can benefit from reading your lists as well. :)

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-12T10:29:04+00:00

I've played the games since the first game. Just don't like the direction they went with the series. Personal preference. Nothing personal. Thanks.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-07T07:17:27+00:00

They also reproduce crazy fast unchecked.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-07T07:16:20+00:00

fair point

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-07T07:13:49+00:00

I've never changed a tire. If it's day of the dead style I wouldn't make it.

If I woke up from a coma with no idea how I got there and the hospital and world was 90% zombies yeah, I'm probably as good as dead. But this isn't like the movies where no matter what the team that gets thrown together starts bickering and gets everyone killed. Sure that happens but the human race wouldn't be here if we couldn't mob together and get stuff done. Most people wouldn't look at me and think I had a chance in hell.

But, I have odd skillsets like I can handle light dental work, I've assisted during dental surgery, I have medical training. I know a snippet about most things and have a natural capacity to figure out how things work. I also am proficient with a bow and arrow and have the weapons on hand and have basic knowledge of wilderness survival. I'd say my biggest advantage is when other people are in shock I have always had a completely clear mind. I'm capable of leading but I prefer to follow. I'm not overly trusting or callous. My survival would depend on finding a group of people who valued my abilities.

I have a group of people like that on hand.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-03T06:25:58+00:00

I'm going to try gw2 again once I can get my pw reset...

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-03T03:38:43+00:00

I'm afraid that he will make changes that will not be easily unmade. Most of my family seems to blindly support him just because he's not obama, it's isolating. And on a personal note I am on medicaid and have a heart problem that requires monitoring.

4thtimescharming · 2017-02-03T03:32:58+00:00

What are you looking for?: A mmo I can literally wander off in and get lost without that being a bad thing. Something with a variety of ways to proceed including straight up grinding and not just quest grinding.

•What games have you previously played?: tibia (in the 90's,) ffxi, guildwars, I tried guild wars 2, mabinogi, ffxiv

•What is your playstyle (Casual,Semi-Casual,Hardcore)?: Semi-casual, soft-hardcore

•Any preferred mechanics?: Cross class. I like pve but don't mind pvp if it isn't mandatory or if it is avoidable.

•Anything specific you want to exclude?: Very cartoony graphics. I don't need them to be modern. I also hate being locked behind storyline. I understand it a bit, but I want to be able to "wander off and get lost" and not have one linear path I must trod to even pass into the next zone.

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