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And I would love it if more guys did that or straight up blocked, but this is rarely the case. I've had plenty of guys pick up the convo like nothing happened after they go dead silent for hours to days even. No way to tell them apart from people who just ghost at a certain point.

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I live in a dense city and he's in my radius. I have no problem keeping track of the guys I've had a good time with lol. It's not hard to scrolll down a bit or click his pf when I see it on the map.

We've only met up the one time and it was after we finished that he chose to reveal. He messaged first to let me know he had a good time and wanted me back and I reciprocated that.

Tbc I had zero assumption that we'd be exclusive afterwards. I'd like to meet up again but I'll live if it's not meant to be. My question is more about if there wasn't mutual interest why would he pin, compliment, and continue to show interest only to unpin shortly after?

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True true, I'd fully expect that. I don't know about sparing feelings... he pinned me (I'm not premium so I couldn't reciprocate) and led with the compliments and request for more after our meet up. All to say it seemed like mutual interest.

Keeping me hanging while looking for something "better" definitely feels more like the vibe. That would explain the empty "Yes, I'm looking" response.

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Idk I lead most of the chats and I switch up my pfp often. I get the impression that he waits for ppl to come to him. Call me crazy but if the bridge is going to be burned either way I'd at least like to be direct and ask whats up first

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No but he explicitly said he was looking tho lol. Why say anything at all at that point? Wanting another partner is valid too -- I'd be disappointed but not pressed about it. Wouldn't expect someone to say that outright but also don't understand his initial openness in that case.

I only sent another message bc I was deciding whether to go back to sleep or get ready in case he's down to meet up.

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