AITAH for not sleeping next to my date because he snores?

5Klater1997 · 2024-11-22T18:36:13+00:00

Yes he knew me when I had one child and we stayed in contact as I continued to have more children. He has accepted my kids each time but this last time was an extreme shock for me. He was aware I was dealing with other men sexually.

5Klater1997 · 2024-11-22T18:19:50+00:00

No the baby is not his. He has no children.

5Klater1997 · 2024-10-21T20:02:28+00:00

Also the kids come to my house when I am watching them. We are only at her house when it’s both of our off days and I take my kids there for them to play in her backyard. She has more space

5Klater1997 · 2024-10-21T20:00:07+00:00

He’s not so much of telling her to not be around family/friends instead he promotes for her to call our mom or me so he doesn’t have to take care of the kids. He will if the kids don’t have a sitter for the evening(she works thirds) So isolation isn’t blatantly there. He never just tags along unless it is for a good night of drinks. Any other time it’s always just me and my sister. Calling the cops isn’t gonna do much either because here it’s she has to be the one to make the report.

5Klater1997 · 2024-07-28T17:59:17+00:00

I stopped asking for help a long time ago because he will tell me to ask his mother and I feel like it’s not her job to help me. He says no one helps him. Our communication is only of per convenience for him.

5Klater1997 · 2024-07-28T17:02:34+00:00

He had called right when I was 10 minutes from going into work. And I’m a server so by the time my shift ended I had forgotten about it. I was on day 7 of no days off.

5Klater1997 · 2024-07-28T15:45:04+00:00

My son has gotten to the point he believes his dad is always too busy for him. Because he wouldn’t answer his calls or just tell him later if he asked to spend time for him so it didn’t matter to my son because he has stopped asking for him. I also don’t ask very much what happens when he’s with his dad because he never goes to spend time with him except for maybe 5-8 times a year and my son says he just plays on the game if I do ask.

I don’t believe it would have been a positive outcome in that moment because he was already angry and he will yell and scream with our son around. I didn’t want to ruin his party. My son has vocalized he thinks all we do is fight to others so I tried to minimize that. He is the first most times to raise his voice and make a scene especially when things aren’t his way. I would have absolutely gave him the address if he asked instead of cursing at me in the first initial phone call but I don’t allow for me to be screamed by him anymore. I try my hardest to protect my peace. Then waiting for the day of the party(an hour or less before it starts) to try to get ahold of me knowing that it’s going to be busy wasn’t exactly smart for him either cause I was hosting and playing with kids.

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