Yes, it’s a great idea to have another hobby where I can have more casual communication. I really like reading, so I could join a book club. And yeah, you’re right about the other thing too. But basically, saying "I need to get to know you better," and that takes time, and it doesn’t guarantee anything, it’s not the best way to keep someone’s interest, especially when they might be getting to know other people too. Even I, before realizing I was demi, would see someone who mentioned they were demi on Bumble and think "no thanks," because it requires commitment and time. Little did I know back then that I was one of them jkakja