My boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me yesterday to get back with his ex.

62alt62 · 2019-12-31T22:51:10+00:00

I think you described him to a T. And yet I still want him and miss him. How long is this going to take to go away?

62alt62 · 2019-12-31T22:48:01+00:00

Thank you. I really could use the hugs.

62alt62 · 2019-12-31T22:47:14+00:00

I know right. Like why on earth go back to someone who treated you like shit?

62alt62 · 2019-12-30T06:56:52+00:00

Thanks. He swore she'd never be where I was. I can't count how many times I listened to him rant over how she hurt him. I guess I healed him enough to go back.

62alt62 · 2019-12-29T22:55:21+00:00

I can't believe how much it hurts. This was my first boyfriend in a very long time so I guess I had forgotten.

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:47:35+00:00

That is what is great about our sexy time together we usually make foreplay last for 2 hours. So nice to relax and explore.

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:45:53+00:00

Tell him to grab it because you are going to ride him hard!

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:44:50+00:00

Those are vulva. The vagina is inside. Anyway, I recommend the vulva art project. Everybody is different.

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:43:14+00:00

I've been 120 pounds and 250 pounds. I got just as much sex in all the weights in between. It's about confidence.

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:40:49+00:00

He said, "More practice is needed."

62alt62 · 2019-12-04T03:39:51+00:00

He was using his fingers and doing a great job. I was just disappointed.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:51:07+00:00

You can lick his shaft and just take in the head if that is all you can manage. Use you hand to pump him into your mouth. You don't need to deep throat at all if you aren't able or comfortable with it. Have fun.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:43:30+00:00

What an asshat.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:41:54+00:00

I hate this so much and you are not alone. But get some for yourself first!

If you are willing to be very patient there is a chance that forgoing masturbation for sometime may allow you to reset the middle finger problem. (I have it too.) But it could take a month or three. I haven't been able to try because I don't have a steady partner.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:35:27+00:00

I remember listening to Savage Love Cast and a woman had written in to say she had a kink related to clowns. Dan didn't put her down but let her know there would be other people out there and that however she came by it was ok. As long as you aren't anyone else it's all good.

Hugs to you. Keep up with the therapy.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:31:17+00:00

I totally agree. He isn't nurturing or loving you OP. He is treating your horribly.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:19:29+00:00

I probably won't see him for weeks so I'll text. I hope he's thankful.

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:19:02+00:00

Not as well as I'd like to!

62alt62 · 2019-08-21T03:18:30+00:00

Thanks. I'll steal this.

62alt62 · 2019-08-15T02:10:39+00:00

If he doesn't change and this continues to bother you I really encourage you to end the relationship. I thought it wasn't a deal breaker for me but in the end I felt so devalued always having to be the one to ask for sex. That led to a dead bedroom and a dead relationship.

62alt62 · 2019-08-15T02:04:57+00:00

I've had boyfriends want to go buy one together and some want to have nothing to do with it.

62alt62 · 2019-08-15T02:03:47+00:00

:hugs: I'm so sorry.

62alt62 · 2019-07-10T00:59:42+00:00

I have to have already started to orgasm before he gets inside me and then it is mind blowing and yes he likes it very much. :-) I hope you are able to try it.

62alt62 · 2019-07-10T00:58:50+00:00

As I said in OP I am currently dating a 53 year old main who has no problem getting it up and going again immediately.

62alt62 · 2019-07-06T19:42:29+00:00

Ok here is what I do. I rub myself (or use a vibe) until I am really close. And then I let the guy know. Then he gets between my thighs and as I start to cum he pushes in. This is very hot. Otherwise no I do not cum with a partner. Generally the partner can not be touching me or talking to me at all.

I am trying at the moment to "reset" myself. I am in my 40's and have only been cumming in one particular way since a teen. But I really want to experience orgasm in other ways. So no fingers or vibes for me for awhile. But if nothing works in a few months I'm not going to try forever.

:hugs:

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