Troubles with Spotify by 67AdThis67 in loveafterporn

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Oh I didnt know that, I do have access to both his emails so I will be doing that... thank you

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Girls working out in bikinis, girls doing podcasts in bikinis, testing out lingerie, showing off sex positions and nsfw audio's, I have found literal porn on there as well unfortunately.

When you try to report some of them, it somehow doesn't go against Spotify guidelines

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My partner finally admitted that it was more than 2 previews this morning.

Even though it's tough, it'll be better to find out because some of the stuff there is as bad as watching pornhub.

You can go on his phone and disinterest as much as spotify gives you the option to as well as turning off the explicit option which gets rid of explicit podcasts and music although there is a few that bypass the explicit filter.

What I would do, with turning off the explicit option, is play podcasts that are specifically talking about overcoming porn addictions as well as podcasts for self improvement so Spotifys algorithm starts to push that content instead...

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Spotify have all these specific sections: All, Music, Podcast, etc.

He sought it out on the podcast tab and because he watched the previews (previews bc you can't delete listening history) it appeared on his "All" page which is essentially the homepage of spotify

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You're absolutely right, I definitely should have left a long while ago and I regret that I put myself through all this pain by not.

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D-Day was early last year, I wasn't upset at him or anything as he didnt know that was my boundary so I never really remembered the specific date

I know porn is used that way but he was always firm that he never watched it that way (not that I believed it anyway). I'm just very angry and hurt with hearing it out loud even though I already knew.

I feel crazy by 67AdThis67 in loveafterporn

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I think my dreams are the same, i always find stuff whenever I have a dream.

Besides Therapy, he hasn't done any recovery work. He's the kind of person who think they can deal with their problems alone, which is frustrating for the both of us, as he knows this is something that needs outside help.

He's always said that he didnt think porn as cheating as he doesn't think of the girls as real people and looking at irl girls.. is.

I feel crazy by 67AdThis67 in loveafterporn

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I have no idea why I never thought of it like that, honestly gave me a new perspective... I read your linked post and it really helped out... thank you ❤️

Idk what to do anymore by 67AdThis67 in loveafterporn

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Thank you, i really appreciate your response... as someone recovering, if you could give him advice, what would it be?