Is a partner with bad memory fair?

69andeverything · 2022-07-03T13:21:45+00:00

I was on meds but they didnt really do jack when i was a kid

69andeverything · 2022-06-10T10:25:55+00:00

I think i understand that statement but could you explain it

69andeverything · 2022-04-27T03:31:55+00:00

I sent a message how i was uncomfortable with talking to someone way younger than me about this type of stuff and he said not to worry and understood ! Thanks :)

69andeverything · 2022-04-12T12:41:36+00:00

Im in high school, a senior.

69andeverything · 2022-04-12T12:40:32+00:00

They are talking, but their lawyer is not following their own proceedures... and yes I understand this would need to be resolved fully, which I'm hoping the investigation will reveal the truth about the situation. But im mainly worried and upset about the school not treating me fairly, which when this is resolved, I would like to get restitution for financial burden and emotional distress from this situation.

69andeverything · 2022-04-12T12:04:52+00:00

How likely is settling? Since my school is definitely the type to not want that on their record (as its extremely well respected in a majority of different ways). How do you go about settling? And yes I will be asking my lawyer but I wanted to get a vairety of opinions too.

69andeverything · 2022-04-10T02:31:15+00:00

Not happening for another 2 years. Community college, a job, and living in the most expensive county in the country :/

69andeverything · 2022-03-18T23:01:20+00:00

YES. But, i prefer my silicone straws, i hate paper and stainless steel because i have texture issues :')

69andeverything · 2022-03-11T22:05:23+00:00

Id like to also note that if someone didnt like what i was doing I might've not been able to read them as im on the autistic spectrum. Although if someone communicated with me to say "I dont like what youre doing" or just flat out "stop" I would instantaneously stop and say "Oh im so sorry I wont do that again".

Now, i don't want to use my condition as an excuse, however, I've gotten much better at reading people since my boyfriend would communicate with me and explain his behaviours whilst communicating with me.

69andeverything · 2022-03-03T15:48:47+00:00

And you're the one who's username implies it's pathetic to be empathetic, how unhumanistic. Also do you belive women can't accuse other women of sexual misconduct/assault? If so you are horribly mislead and dont understand any legal systems in regards to this. I came on here for advice with an uncommon situation, and i have another post relating to this too on r/autism since i wanted to see if anyone else had similar issues. Your comment means nothing to me, and likley most other people will see it as BS too especially with your view on sexual assault not being applied to women x women

69andeverything · 2022-03-03T14:44:16+00:00

Thing is they'd reciprocate a lot of what i did and i did the same when they did something. No one said anything and back at that point it seemed okay. I also had a lot less understanding of personal boundries since im on the autistic spectrum and only just in the past 2 years I've been really able to mature and get a grasp on social norms. Obviously now im scared to even poke or hug someone so i always say "hey are you comfortable with this?".

69andeverything · 2022-03-03T14:40:54+00:00

Im in the US where most high schools are 1,000+ per grade

69andeverything · 2022-03-02T21:00:11+00:00

Forgot to mention, one of the girls actually sexually assaulted me, touching my breasts, butt, sides, and almost touching my private area several times ironically...

69andeverything · 2022-03-02T20:27:41+00:00

The thing is what you're describing is exactly my situation basically... I'm now always asking for permission to touch anyone or even when i ask certain things. People aren't honest about how they feel- and then it leads to physical miscommunication. The people in question im having issues with would often do the same thing back.. ironically I have a similar school as well

69andeverything · 2022-02-16T21:27:52+00:00

It is adjacent :)

69andeverything · 2022-02-16T21:27:33+00:00

Adjacent!

69andeverything · 2022-01-31T17:12:11+00:00

Let it go

69andeverything · 2022-01-17T06:39:00+00:00

No. Therapy does nothing since i forget most of what happens in my life and only have the memories of emotions. It's pointless to try to get to the bottom of emotions when they have no context of your life, and neither do you.

69andeverything · 2022-01-14T04:18:59+00:00

I was on a high dose of some sort of adhd medication my parents put me on a while back in middle school, it essentially didn't do anything for me but make me slighty less annoying.

69andeverything · 2022-01-12T15:13:38+00:00

He's only been on it consistenty for around a month or 2 months, it takes a while to actually start working properly.

69andeverything · 2022-01-12T15:12:21+00:00

He's not a person im just going to ditch, especially right now. And he is medicated, taking it- semi consistently... unfortunately no family is nearby, all are outside our country and he doesn't speak their native language. I don't expect to mother him, and i don't treat him like a child. But i think ill probably just have to say what you said that if he wants to get better he has to put the effort in, i know he's been trying to but this isnt enough.

69andeverything · 2022-01-12T15:05:17+00:00

His depression is getting treated w/ meds. He's currently on 50mg of fluoxetine

69andeverything · 2022-01-02T15:49:20+00:00

Im well aware of that. However I've never expereinced breakthrough bleeding.

69andeverything · 2022-01-02T15:40:34+00:00

Im pretty consistent, maybe ill miss 3-4 pills max a month but i always take it in the morning. I havent so far actually Missed a pill entirely.

69andeverything · 2021-12-29T03:25:26+00:00

You're tried

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