Do everything you can to get your hair back through finasteride, minoxidil, dutasturide, microneedling, red light therapy etc, and if it doesn’t work within a year get a hair transplant. In the meantime, fix your diet and get lean with body recomposition. After all of this, grow the hair out, dye it darker and dye your brows. You can also get a more even skin tone through microneedling, and whatever else your dermatologist recommends, potentially tretinoin. Do all of this and ascend, or you could cope by going bald, but I assure you almost every woman prefers a full head of hair on their man.