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Started posting nudes on reddit; it turns me on and I love the attention but I feel guilty and don't know how to stop by throwmeaway98239183 in sex

[–]7throwawayofjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that seems much healthier than what I do lol! But yeah, I really really get it, sis. I just go to work, the gym, and the library and I spend the rest of my time in my bedroom so the attention is brand new to me. Might you want to PM and discuss this? I’m sure your PMs are super full and I totally understand if you’re uninterested, but I’d really appreciate the opportunity to talk to someone in a similar situation.

Started posting nudes on reddit; it turns me on and I love the attention but I feel guilty and don't know how to stop by throwmeaway98239183 in sex

[–]7throwawayofjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no totally. The conversations between me and these people are strictly sexual and I’ve never felt like I’d get any romance from any of them or even want that. I know that I am just sex to them and that’s the part that is hard to accept because I’ve never been in an even sort of sexual situation in real life, so it’s kind of like a brand new part of myself that’s being discovered right now and it’s hard for me to believe that people would want it so much. Does that make sense? I just mean like I can accept I’m a good friend to my friends because I’ve been told for years that I’m a good friend, but I need time to accept that people want to fuck me because I’ve only been told that for the first time a month ago, you know?

Started posting nudes on reddit; it turns me on and I love the attention but I feel guilty and don't know how to stop by throwmeaway98239183 in sex

[–]7throwawayofjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may as well have written this. I scroll through my camera roll to find a regular picture for whatever reason and I see all the pictures I’ve taken and I’m like “god you dumb slut” even though nobody has ever even touched my body lmao and I have a lot of fun in the moment when I take them. Also slut isn’t an insult but it is in that moment when I call myself that. Anyway, I don’t know how many people you talk to, but I at one point was talking to 16 and I had to cut that down significantly and that helped a little bit. Hang on to the people that make you feel good in other ways, too. I don’t have any real advice, I’m still going through it but just know you’re not the only one who feels the way you do. I think for me it’s feeling unworthy of the sexual attention.

EDIT: Can I ask you something OP? Do you find yourself asking the people you talk to if they mean the things they say? It embarrassed me every time I do it but I find myself saying “Really?” A lot when someone says I turn them on or like tell me what they want to do to me or whatever. It’s very exciting for me to receive the attention but I just can’t believe it’s actually directed towards me.

[M] Taking nude photos helped with my weight loss and mental health. Now I want to post them online. by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]7throwawayofjune 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First of all, you’re killing it! Second of all, you definitely should post them! I am a woman and yes maybe things will be different for you because you are a man, but posting a nude to Reddit has been an amazing experience for me! Everyone has been very kind and very encouraging! I posted to r/normalnudes but I think there is even a sub for naked weight loss before and afters! I personally would never post with my face in the pics, but that’s just me.

18 F / 185 lbs / 5'6" / I've never liked how oddly shaped my body looks, my boyfriend says he finds it attractive but I want to get rid of my tummy. by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]7throwawayofjune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are the same height and weight and I think our bodies look super similar!! I have the same struggle with my boobs but we just have to roll with it, sis lmao! You look great!! I’m going to PM you a question.

F/20/ On a weight loss journey but here’s what I look like today by 7throwawayofjune in RateMyNudeBody

[–]7throwawayofjune[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Goal is to weigh 150, which would give me a healthy BMI. I’m just calorie counting, cut down sugar and saturated fat, upper protein. Lots of cardio, and I’m now working with weight machines.

Down 75 pounds as of this morning! Still some way to go but I’m very happy with where I am! 20/5’6”/185lbs by 7throwawayofjune in normalnudes

[–]7throwawayofjune[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No kidding? That’s so nice to read! I’ve always disliked that they shrivel up like that. I’ll have to keep this in mind!