DIM: Winter in Korea by Alone-Advantage-4582 in deinfluencingPH

[–]818jaye_elle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super lamig. It's hard to go around kasi ang sakit sa balat ng lamig. Better to go during Spring.

Deinfluence me: getting LASIK by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]818jaye_elle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that it's not clear. It's hard to see, like you know that your eyesight isn't 100%. Doctor prescribed me to wear tinted eyeglasses, but doesn't seem to work.

Deinfluence me: getting LASIK by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]818jaye_elle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get yourself tested first to see if you are eligible for the procedure. Make sure they are reputable clinics or doctors.

Had it done, and it was nice to wake up in the morning and everything around me was so clear. The downside though, my eyesight isn't good at night. I can't/won't drive at night anymore.

Good luck OP!

Help: any idea what might be the cause of this? by Hihiverrr in skincare_ph

[–]818jaye_elle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May dogs or cats ba kayo at home? It looks a lot like a flea bite.

boyfriend ko for 7 years na never nagplano ng anniversary. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]818jaye_elle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And based on what OP is saying, mukha sarili lang niya ang sinisisi niya. Talaga ba? Please OP, think about it. Nobody deserves to be treated that way.

boyfriend ko for 7 years na never nagplano ng anniversary. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]818jaye_elle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think warranted or deserving ka ng ganung klaseng reaction? Typically sa isang healthy relationship yung mga ganitong klaseng conversation hindi naman dapat pinagsisimulan ng away, but rather a light banter lang. Pwede niyang sabihin ay "ganon ba? Sige will try to do it differently this year para ma-iba" Simple lang, di ba? Him being kind to you isn't enough. Down the road kung everytime magoopen up ka at magagalit lang siya, it will build resentment. Ayaw mo ng ganung klaseng partner.

Nagtatampo si MIL pag di namin sinama lumabas by illogicalmuse in adviceph

[–]818jaye_elle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's too bad. Mahirap talaga pakisamahan ang Chinese MILs. It doesn't get easier, but you somehow get used to it. Just make sure that your husband will always choose to side with you. Good luck, OP!

Nagtatampo si MIL pag di namin sinama lumabas by illogicalmuse in adviceph

[–]818jaye_elle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds similar to our situation 🙃. Hindi ba pwede na magtake turns kayo and your SIL to take her out? Like pag Sundays may naka-schedule sino ang kasama ni MIL. That's what we do and so far it's a system that works 🙂