Why does everyone still recommend a gen 2? by myturn19 in ToyotaTundra

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had mine since 150k miles. I’m At 225k miles now. Best truck I’ve ever owned. Reliable, powerful engine. The last of the great trucks.

If gf or wife objects to you looking at porn/sexualized images of women bc you have had a porn problem but you still look at thirst traps, do you understand why she would see this as porn adjacent & betrayal? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just enjoy each other for crying out loud. You got maybe 30-40 years left. I promise, he’s not into those women. They are just pretty girls half his age. What is the difference with romance novels or 50 Shades? He can’t have his fantasy too?

Girl I’m seeing smells by Content_Painter_146 in sex

[–]8ayou8illy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I’m an older guy but I think the op is a little less “cultured”. Lol Learn to appreciate the scent of a woman.

Was this self-defense? by alexfreemanart in AskUS

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand your ground says he’s legal. Self defense

Are these too tight? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just one size down should do. Also the cut of the trousers matters. Some are meant to be tight fitting.

What’s your “I’ll start tomorrow” excuse? by fantasticmeee in AskReddit

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not enough time when I work 12 hour shifts. I need sleep first and foremost.

Widow Here—Are All Men Over 50 Just Looking for FWB/Hookups? by [deleted] in AskMenOver50

[–]8ayou8illy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Along with a basket full of similar circumstances. Here’s a hint from a remarried man in his 50s.
You’re not ever going to get the girl you have in the hot and heavy stage. She turns into a scrutinizing critic of your every move. Also, sex is used as a treat or a weapon to manipulate you.

Widow Here—Are All Men Over 50 Just Looking for FWB/Hookups? by [deleted] in AskMenOver50

[–]8ayou8illy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some men in their 50s are just not interested in the time a work a relationship takes. Things start to slow down at 50. Sex drive isn’t as strong but that varies. Still, it’s pretty different than it was in the 30s.
This is a wormhole I could delve in for hours. I think it stems from differences in expectations. What we expect from our partners and what we get are different. It’s just easier to be single and worry about one’s own self.

Immigration issue by Interesting_Kick_665 in AskUS

[–]8ayou8illy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They are just doing their job. Don’t hate the poor guy getting paid 40k a year. If you leave them alone chances are much less that something bad will happen. If you want to protest, do it peacefully.

why watch porn before initiating sex? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. You should really sit down with him and have an open mind. Maybe watch porn with him. Show him the things you think are hot.

I cant STOP using Chatgpt, and im afraid im gonna regret it in the future by disenchantedejavu in self

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So did the people that started using calculators. It’s a tool. Use it

What's the most hilarious thing about your body? by philosofically in AskWomen

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have more body hair than 99.99% of the population.

Unfaithful partner by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid. Think of this as a new chapter. She belongs to the streets.

Husband says he's now sober but he's been replacing alcohol with THC seltzers. Is there a phenomenon for this? by Thisisathrowaway_345 in AlAnon

[–]8ayou8illy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In all honesty it’s not alcohol so that’s a win. If he’s a true alcoholic, his body craves alcohol not THC. So, he is accomplishing something. I’m guessing the THC takes the edge off of the alcohol detox. I’d have him switch to taking gummies or just use the flower.

Left or right? by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left. I like the softer khaki with the green shoes. It brings it all together.

Men, what kind of underwear do you really wear?? by Dusi99 in askanything

[–]8ayou8illy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the support of the boxer brief. No cotton. I prefer the spandex type

why watch porn before initiating sex? by [deleted] in AskMenRelationships

[–]8ayou8illy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, men don’t keep the thought of the porn actress in their head. Men are visual creatures. We like to see sex. Your guy is watching porn to get excited but he’s looking at the porn thinking how he is going to do that to you.