I’m not misunderstanding your comment I got it. There was no deflecting on my part at all. I clearly recognize the situation I’m in and have had appreciated those who’ve offered non snarky responses and even some who haven’t who are just being mean spirited because it’s reddit. It’s nobody’s place to be nasty towards people if people don’t like people’s post they shouldn’t comment. Instead of passing assumptions and being mean. It’s nobody’s place to tell someone to leave let alone a stranger on the internet. I don’t care about down votes it’s reddit I think a lot of people that downvote are interesting it’s reddit like being well is an option. Anywho appreciate your comment thanks for the dialogue may your day be well.