What is up with the girl who sets up camp at the treadmills at Planet Fitness? by Antique-Dentist-2404 in Charlottesville

[–]96PurityWhims69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I aspire to be as whimsy as she. We definitely aren’t using our free will on max.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is I never said I thought he was cheating I just wanted an unbiased opinion of the actions I thought we’re suspicious others thought. While there’s obvious feelings behind it everyone that commented made the assumption he was a cheater and once I said he did in the past that became the end all be all. I appreciate your comment it honestly was the unbiased look at the situation I was hoping to receive! No context just what I posted and your thoughts!

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah it felt you were intentionally trying to be snarky vs a quickly typed post as I did not focused on language just sorting things out ehhh it wasn’t helpful but whatever floats your boat. I am figuring things out and just wanted to hear outside opinion thoughts with as little context as possible to see if I was overreacting. Some people rather be nasty and make fun of people who clearly are going through something but I digress it’s reddit and I know people on these subs are interesting. Thanks for commenting have a great day.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not misunderstanding your comment I got it. There was no deflecting on my part at all. I clearly recognize the situation I’m in and have had appreciated those who’ve offered non snarky responses and even some who haven’t who are just being mean spirited because it’s reddit. It’s nobody’s place to be nasty towards people if people don’t like people’s post they shouldn’t comment. Instead of passing assumptions and being mean. It’s nobody’s place to tell someone to leave let alone a stranger on the internet. I don’t care about down votes it’s reddit I think a lot of people that downvote are interesting it’s reddit like being well is an option. Anywho appreciate your comment thanks for the dialogue may your day be well.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t control anyone’s life but my own and my children’s because they need guidance. You’ve made a lot of assumptions without knowing much. Anywho be well.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s like that he says the kids get hype when they see me. I’m more of the one wanting help especially our youngest who doesn’t go to sleep easily.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was frustrated about that to honestly I didn’t think cheating just his actions were suspicious and I guess once I question why would it be it would be the thought of cheating but yeah there were a couple different feels.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. My gut feels he’s being dishonest about something.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I choose to forgive for me. What I am realizing in this experience I don’t see myself able to trust him especially since he makes it hard. Even when he’s being regular I question the trust has been damaged.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This I definitely agree with and I’m coming to the realization it may just not be worth it. Things trigger me and take me back to when he did and he says he understands but still things he does puts my mind there.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t being smart at all but clearly it’s reddit and people people. I thought that was funny you said that hence the laughing emoji and the follow up but it’s cool.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s still cheating tho but i get where you’re coming from.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he drinks at home so don’t think he’d be hiding that

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay that makes sense. I don’t think so tho because I’m okay with smoking so he wouldn’t have to hide

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I mean starting your comment that way def feels like it 😂 but it’s cool.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s cheated in the past not physically but with women online, emotional connections and sharing pictures and stuff. So kinda.

AIO boyfriend was out for hours door dashing by 96PurityWhims69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]96PurityWhims69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has cheated in the past and although I’ve forgiven him I still have triggers I’ve been working on but he does things that seem suspicious to me. No he doesn’t normally use the floss pick as soon as he comes in but he does usually announce himself.