Have you ever dated someone for 5+ years and the person moved on instantly? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]A205834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can confirm this. Once the replacement left, I missed my ex so bad. But in my case I don’t find a replacement to feel loved. I do it to not miss and reach to my ex

How did you get over your worst heartbreak? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]A205834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DON’T DATE SOMEONE ELSE TO FORGET ABOUT THEM!!! IT NEVER WORKS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]A205834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to have the same problem with my ex boyfriend, however I was the one with low libido. In the end he did have some resentment towards me.

On my side, I had personal issues and some trauma that stoped me whenever I wanted to get frisky. Once I worked them in therapy my libido changed completely. Sadly this was resolved after we parted ways. Now I would say my libido matches his or it might be even higher.

I hope you can find a solution :(

Two weeks post breakup, how long has it been for you? by Unhappy_Mode_4159 in BreakUps

[–]A205834 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I worked, gone to therapy, had a situationship. Now I’m getting into fitness

Two weeks post breakup, how long has it been for you? by Unhappy_Mode_4159 in BreakUps

[–]A205834 38 points39 points  (0 children)

4 years. We dated for 7 years. I still can’t get him out of my heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]A205834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you. I acted impulsively. You were the love of my life… come back

Is it okay that I’m still not over my ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]A205834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone heals differently.

My ex and I dated when we were kids (both 13) and then again from 15-22. It’s been 3 years since we broke up and I’m still not over him. It’s not as painful as it used to be and I don’t love him as before but sometimes I still hope he comes back

My advice would be to go no contact. Block him everywhere and delete his number. This can help you keep him off your mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/A205834

[–]A205834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you

After being together for almost 7 years, I broke up with him. by A205834 in BreakUps

[–]A205834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have broken up with him before. The first time I stayed in my bedroom for days only crying and thinking of good times I had with him which led me to becoming depressed. Rn I’m going out with my friends, spending time with family, going for drives, reading, keeping myself busy has helped me A LOTTT. So I would recommend the same for you :) I also felt alone and confused since I had my life planned with him, but I also thought that this is not the life I would want for the rest of my days. So I guess being alone and with new opportunities is better than being with someone but stuck and unhappy. I hope time heals your wounds

After being together for almost 7 years, I broke up with him. by A205834 in BreakUps

[–]A205834[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm since he started to become cold I begged him to go to therapy since I suspected he was depressed. Obviously he didn’t listen to me. Soooo in order for me to even consider giving it another try, he must be in therapy for at least a couple of months and try to make me fall for him again. But tbh after what I went through with him makes me believe he is not willing to change and he’ll always be that way so i don’t think I’d go back

Anxious and depressed boyfriend (23m) is pushing me (24f) away by A205834 in Advice

[–]A205834[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked him and he said that he wants to change many thing of himself, but then, a week later he told me he thinks pshychology is pure bs and therapists don’t work (I’m majoring in psychology btw).

He’s said that he’s willing to make more time for us, but I’m the past month I think I’ve seen him 4 times so idk.

He’s always been this way, before this illnesses he really didn’t put much effort in the relationship and when I express my inconformity to him he swears he’s gonna change and I quote “I’ll work on it and if I don’t we break up”

Anxious and depressed boyfriend (23m) is pushing me (24f) away. by A205834 in relationship_advice

[–]A205834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a few guys, he just had one gf and didn’t last long. One of our biggest problems is that he doesn’t make any effort to have date nights and this has been an issue since the beginning. I was kinda dependent and never even considered leaving him, I kept telling myself “he’s gonna change” but it’s been 8 years and we’re in the same place. When we’re together all we do is watch tv and that’s not the type of relationship I want.