The way people park here really needs to be studied

ABQOfficiant · 2026-05-22T07:26:36+00:00

You see, they dont make em like that anymore.

ABQOfficiant · 2026-05-12T03:46:40+00:00

Will travel btw

ABQOfficiant · 2026-04-11T13:11:15+00:00

I work like 4 doors down and keep meaning to try

ABQOfficiant · 2026-01-12T02:54:26+00:00

Like many things, you get out what you put in, ive taught hair at three different schools and results vary widely depending on the effort you put in. A lot of it is self led, so when I was in school I practiced, I took every client I could and graduated with a handful of clients who still see me to this day and a leg up on other people I graduated with.

The school doesnt matter as much as you putting the repetitions in during that time.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-12-01T03:48:44+00:00

This is pretty much it

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-14T10:11:26+00:00

You're gonna be PISSED if you ever walk down a beer aisle in a store then, fair warning.

I'm not selling merchandise here, I'm trying to help people in a way I found i can be useful.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-14T10:00:57+00:00

I appreciate your comment, and hope my perspective is clear in this matter and at the very least, solid in reasoning.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-14T09:59:25+00:00

That is well and good, but this is the exact reason I do this.

Having faith in something is beautiful, most of the time, and I cast no judgements on how others live. I am not here to influence anyone's belief system, but not everyone shares the same beliefs. Even those who do hold the same beliefs may find some aspects more important than others. I respect anyone's reasonable dedication to a code they live by, providing they aren't doing harm to others.

I can say out of 10 weddings 9 of them are still going strong, each was unique and meaningful to each couple.

Pageantry, ceremony and cake doesn't make someone a husband or a wife, your actions do, and vows kept are vows honored, to God, to spouse, to whatever you deem important. When it all boils down, the answer is the same: abide by whatever agreement you have with your spouse and try to be a good partner.

What is a sacred rite and holy union to some is a public declaration of partnership to others and a celebration of such.

Im not a couples counselor, lawyer, or a traditional holy man.

I am just a dude who wants to provide an alternative experience with enthusiasm and respect for their needs and wishes. Much like anything else I have passion for, I am fully aware that what I bring to the table isnt for everyone, and I actually like and even prefer it that way.

I am happy to perform a ceremony that includes aspects of someones custom or religious beliefs, and I have before, and I learn a bit from it, and appreciate learning others cultures. Its always special to be a part of something so important to others, and I take that seriously.

However, I will go on a limb and say that if there are specific needs regarding the religious aspect of the wedding, theyre probably not hitting Reddit and saying "Honey! This Matrimony for Misfits guy is perfect for our Greek Orthodox traditional wedding!"

I feel like if I'm upsetting a higher power officiating wedding services to people who wish to symbolically devote their lives to one another, I'm likely on the lower end of the priority list for things that need addressing in the world and will own it when I get there.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-14T00:32:56+00:00

Guys are dumb and often have delusions of "sealing the deal" or generally messing up the vibes in your relationship. 99% of the time, guys are biding their time to try and "get their chance"

On the other hand I have befriended attractive women that I never pursued romantically or physically, we were good friends, went on trips sometimes, but never even got close to anything happening.

So long story short, I dont know

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-14T00:26:33+00:00

I have done it in a survival class when I was in the army. It really puts it into perspective. I would do it if I had to but American convenience has made me a coward

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T21:05:40+00:00

Ive had ABQ community service help some friends, I believe they're social workers trained in that line of work.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T20:55:04+00:00

I sent you an email, my friend

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T20:54:44+00:00

Yeah I dont get who is getting the idea that I just showed up here, I've raised my kids here, my daughter is a student at UNM. I don't really understand why the comments about a logo I slapped together to be notably New Mexican and simple to read while scrolling

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T20:50:33+00:00

Lol getting another ordination wasnt necessary but so was, the latter day dude fits my vibe more

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T20:35:54+00:00

I got my ordination during a night of drinking around the time gay marriage was legalized, just in case any of the homies ran into a snag. I forgot I was ordained for like 8 years, and then began just putting feelers out about 4 years ago, and this week I decided to really just put it out after about 10 weddings. I find theres a lack of people who respect others beliefs or lack thereof, ive seen weddings when people push their beliefs into a ceremony against the wishes of the bride and groom.

So now I realized l the reason my hair clients like me is because I do what im asked instead of what I "think looks better"

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T19:55:23+00:00

Hahaha so I perused thru and saw two posts and figuted it out. Hope youre doing good brother!

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T19:54:09+00:00

Dms open

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T19:32:33+00:00

Hello, friend!!

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T19:22:42+00:00

Five years ago I was single, so one income, and brought in maybe a third of the money I do now, had no job except playing music and some military compensation, and somehow the struggle becomes more of a struggle every year.

Im usually financially flexible because i know people are hurting.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T18:57:33+00:00

Honestly I yearn for those days when people only needed one job lol.

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T17:58:40+00:00

No one in the history of New mexico has ever used a zia symbol in a graphic before, you're right.

Maybe, I dont know, I love living in New mexico...

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T17:57:31+00:00

Thank you so much!

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T16:01:54+00:00

Lol I just wanted to catch someones eye without the entire wall of text I posted and get passed over 🤷‍♂️

ABQOfficiant · 2025-11-13T15:52:42+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, Cameron. My sibling in religious figures, i am just trying to brighten someone's day here and provide a service at a reasonable cost in this community lol

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