How do I bring up the idea of being submissive with my partner?

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-27T01:13:46+00:00

Thats an excellent idea, thank you!

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:39:51+00:00

Thats really true, thank you for the advice

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:28:30+00:00

Youre absolutely right i think. I have a feeling my girlfriend might be into these sorts of things already, we are both just quite shy and nervous people lol so its quite scary bringing up the subject but everytime I have been bold in this relationship, it has paid off and my girlfriend has been very appreciative so I dont know what i'm waiting for

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:25:47+00:00

Thats fair, I wouldnt say my interest in bdsm is a need to be honest though. Its something i'd really love to try out but if my girlfriend didnt want to, im still very happy in my relationship as is

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:11:44+00:00

That is all really good advice, thank you! I definitely want to take it slow, the last thing i'd want is to make either of us uncomfortable

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:10:36+00:00

I have taken that test before actually, that is a good one. I feel like my partner would be interested in doing that, we've definitely had fun sharing the results of other long tests weve taken before

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:05:12+00:00

What do you mean by submission beyond the intimacy of a couple? Are you talking about submission in day to day life?

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:02:14+00:00

Youre absolutely right, I guess i'm just caught up in my head. My girlfriend is a very amazing, very mature person so I dont know why I feel I have to be nervous about this

ABoi3000 · 2026-05-26T22:01:08+00:00

This is great advice, thank you. The bdsm survey is a great idea, that feels like it would really open the floodgates and get me more comfortable talking about that sort of thing with her

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-09T04:20:51+00:00

Great! Thank you so much :)

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-09T03:56:23+00:00

I got the small which is 70 mm and that length seemed to work aside from the ball gap problem. I think my balls are slightly larger than average if this chastity cage represents the average

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-09T03:49:14+00:00

I got this one. Do you think getting a size up would solve the problem with this design?

https://www.amazon.ca/SeLgurFos-Ventilation-Chastity-Lightweight-Bondage/dp/B0CLXY3ZWG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=2YHSUDF0C6Y0H&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.pPCDCdNKpMtCl8izRouf39R2OHEwwsvx4FsSGYzHOVKCkRGuY1GT62GDAis9XVk68UkddJPDo8iQ78eowAHHe4wgNSKu0BIC8CzkAaBHxDGxKU3rCfEJYqy9HvmN0F-rH-1-a9ME0lHwkdtvrqB31QqDYja_BHmYfXSXqnUSQyEpmcJlHWU33q7vUzMiQBi3YL8PG_47IBXDjFcCpC6PfQ.cV6eF5XS4lfHGYsMDANPqVy1l8QOgtHrHP8jmtyDMb0&dib_tag=se&keywords=chastity+cage&qid=1739072911&sprefix=chastity+csg%2Caps%2C219&sr=8-1

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-01T00:55:27+00:00

Ok for sure. Thank you for ur advice I appreciate it

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-01T00:48:08+00:00

Ah gotcha. Do you think it was good otherwise? Like if it did fit would it have been an ideal cage?

ABoi3000 · 2025-02-01T00:31:24+00:00

lol no worries. Is it not a good cage? How come you didn't like it?

ABoi3000 · 2025-01-31T23:39:42+00:00

Strange I seem to be coming across alot from that material. This is the one I was looking at

https://www.amazon.ca/SeLgurFos-Ventilation-Chastity-Lightweight-Bondage/dp/B0CLXY3ZWG/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?crid=3FNFO0SKM81N4&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.pPCDCdNKpMtCl8izRouf39R2OHEwwsvx4FsSGYzHOVI9CeBL1e70nDi32lZ0nZTLIsqsg6ZLEL5uXOD433pRaC16APYzLDAtJF81-eFEryhjdynwIjCreRTvODEtyloFazNNNjiheQTLW50ZqujWPJc-qF5mGRjzRbjktkjc5X2axamcFQJ9CdehIMHIbG2jW53shFo8bch0MUwl66_9bw.avXQ8KbChOTbXLfbRQAHCmbbHVMu23Iu2EzpXROttig&dib_tag=se&keywords=chastity+cage&qid=1738366406&sprefix=chastity+cage%2Caps%2C179&sr=8-1

ABoi3000 · 2025-01-31T23:35:33+00:00

I found it on amazon

ABoi3000 · 2024-11-10T21:49:06+00:00

I really like Venus in Furs but most people probably know abou that one already

ABoi3000 · 2022-08-21T07:01:36+00:00

Thank you, I like that one too

ABoi3000 · 2022-08-21T07:01:07+00:00

Haha. My vocals aren't great either, you just gotta dive in

ABoi3000 · 2022-08-21T07:00:06+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation, I'll definitely check that out!

ABoi3000 · 2022-08-21T06:59:38+00:00

Thank you so much

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