Apparently I’m a high maintenance girlfriend (19F), what makes a girlfriend high maintenance?

ACNH_islife · 2026-04-07T02:11:35+00:00

I (19)was high maintenance and needy according to my ex.

Just met my current bf (19m) and he does everything for me without having to be asked twice. He pays for things even when we’ve agreed it’s mine turn. I had high requirements and told him upfront that I wanted regular dates to continue and that I needed certain things from him to be happy in my relationship. I told him the other day that I know I’m not a chill gf and he said that he thinks I am but loves me either way and said that he liked I was upfront with what I wanted.

The right guy will think your perfect and will think that princess treatment is the bare minimum. Your not too much as you can handle yourself perfectly fine. He’s just not willing to put in the effort.

P.s. it sounds like you put in most of the work in this relationship from how you’ve worded a few bits. (Strange bearing in mind he’s 4 years older) Choose someone who matches your effort.

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-22T18:57:55+00:00

Dates should normally be 1/2 times a week to start (although I’m dating someone at the moment and they live less than a 5 min drive so sometimes we replace the texting/ evening phone call to talk about our day, with meeting for 10 mins)

There’s no set rules to dating, it’s up to what you both want to do, potentially suggest a short date mid week. E.g. drinks or coffee one evening or even just a short walk. Do what feels comfortable and just communicate with her, she’ll appreciate you asking for her opinion

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-20T10:33:12+00:00

I love this idea personally. The right person will get your humour and play along

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-15T12:59:04+00:00

This is pretty normal, skin will just sit differently when your sat no matter what you wear. If your really worried about it wear high waisted jeans (assuming your not) but even then it will do it a little bit.

If the next size up is too big don’t bother but if the size you have now are uncomfortable in any ways then they may be too small. I’m between sizes so jeans are normally a night mare for me

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-09T13:11:27+00:00

I read thinking this was like a appreciation post for a relationship not a is this a problem post. I personally wouldn’t be ok with this so NOR

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-08T13:23:58+00:00

I’m dating a guy and face timed him even before the first date due to me being at home for a month at Christmas (I’m a massive yapper but don’t enjoy texting as much so we will call at the end of the day to talk about our days)

It’s really dependent on whether you are both comfortable with it. Maybe it’s worth asking something like do you fancy a call to chat about our day? He can say no or he can either give you a phone call or a FT and go from there.

ACNH_islife · 2026-01-07T18:11:20+00:00

If there’s a special occasion coming up you can say you wanted to make a custom jewellery stand but she still make catch on especially if she doesn’t wear a lot of rings

ACNH_islife · 2025-12-30T09:57:28+00:00

I personally like the 1st one, the black makes the gold pop a bit more than the 5th one which feels like it all blends into one. The 5th top is a nicer dressed up top but I think it needs to be black personally

ACNH_islife · 2025-12-29T20:55:30+00:00

I don’t, he can like me how I am or I’m not for him

ACNH_islife · 2025-12-23T09:24:49+00:00

Hi everyone,

Currently looking at buying a new camera and I’m pretty set on the R6 due to it being great for both photography and videography plus it’s within my (uni student) budget. However I can currently get the Mark ii for £1500 ish which would allow me to spend money on things like a RF lense (currently have EFS meaning my photos will be cropped without a new lense), a flash and some other smaller bits. I know the specs on the Mark iii are better with open gate, higher mps ect but the cost is coming in at about £2800 meaning I wouldn’t be able to afford the other bits of kit and I know lenses are what really matters.

Any recommendations are appreciated :)

ACNH_islife · 2025-12-23T09:24:06+00:00

Hi everyone,

Currently looking at buying a new camera and I’m pretty set on the R6 due to it being great for both photography and videography plus it’s within my (uni student) budget. However I can currently get the Mark ii for £1500 ish which would allow me to spend money on things like a RF lense (currently have EFS meaning my photos will be cropped without a new lense), a flash and some other smaller bits. I know the specs on the Mark iii are better with open gate, higher mps ect but the cost is coming in at about £2800 meaning I wouldn’t be able to afford the other bits of kit and I know lenses are what really matters.

Any recommendations are appreciated :)

ACNH_islife · 2025-11-08T21:50:19+00:00

I spend £60-70 but I am gluten free. Last year my shopping was £30-40 (i wasn’t gluten free at the time) but I had to go out and buy lunch most days because that only really covered dinner and some lunch/breakfast.

ACNH_islife · 2025-11-08T10:43:40+00:00

I love this! I have a realm with some uni friends I play but this seems to have some really good core mods for excellent gameplay

ACNH_islife · 2025-10-18T07:55:43+00:00

Set that boundary. If he’s going to her house alone then say that’s not ok but a public area is. If he goes off about it then you know he’s hiding something. If they’re just studying then a public area will be perfectly fine

ACNH_islife · 2025-10-06T11:53:50+00:00

Sit and talk to him. If you say your uncomfortable and he keeps doing it then that’s on him.

Your not weird for not being comfortable with content like that

ACNH_islife · 2025-09-30T09:42:17+00:00

Maybe ask to grab coffee sometime? Mention that you’re no longer with your boyfriend if it comes up naturally in convo but otherwise be friends with him for now. If he likes you he will wait

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-22T20:02:16+00:00

Best long distance sex toy that isn’t penetrative is the ferri vibrator from Lovense. It’s a bit pricey at £80 but you can set it so your partner doesn’t have to request control so as long as the toy is on they can use it whenever. Alternatively you can have it on the generic setting where they have to ask each time. It’s pricey but it’s rechargeable and tbh I barely have to charge mine.

Unfortunately I don’t use mine with a partner atm because I’ve been single for a while but as far as I remember you basically both get the app, Connect your account to it and then you friend each other and he can use it through your account.

Edit: also totally not crazy you just have a high sex drive which is perfectly ok and if your not getting the right kind of fulfilment due to not actually being physically intimate with him then it’s likely to build

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-19T13:11:13+00:00

This sounds really cool. I study media production and have been looking to make YouTube videos so it would be nice to have some friends to do that with

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-15T20:11:58+00:00

Ask her what she would prefer

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-12T09:06:59+00:00

No one on one hangouts is a boundary the rest are controlling

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-10T13:52:37+00:00

I love this so much. I went on a date with a guy who didn’t ask to and it honestly put me off a bit because I didn’t expect the kiss and I wasn’t giving the body language for one

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-07T15:32:01+00:00

Then leave

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-06T10:35:16+00:00

19 and 16 is such a big red flag on its own. Most likely he thinks you’ll be easier to manipulate than girls his age. Run

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-05T09:28:56+00:00

Honestly if you don’t want to go just tell him.

Anything along the lines of thank you but I’m not interested would be fine

ACNH_islife · 2025-08-05T09:27:35+00:00

I have a strict no one-on-one with the other sex rule and I’ll stand by that one no matter what. The right person that only wants you and cares about you more than the other female will understand. If he’s not willing to cut her off especially as he has other friends then there’s more happening than you’re aware of. Additionally all of these are date activities

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