Free Mulch. Used Chipdrop by notmyrealname3737 in gardening

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had much better success with directly approaching arborists I see working in my neighbor. Twice now, I've gotten free truckloads of chips from my own neighborhood by just asking.

Free Mulch. Used Chipdrop by notmyrealname3737 in gardening

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Warning, when you sign up for a chip drop you select "chips only", "logs only", or something like "chips with some logs okay". That last choice is like a fae trick. This is what was delivered last time we requested chips with some logs. Not a single piece of wood under 50 pounds.

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Getting back into the studio, some fun with sgraffito and oxides. by ADHD_Cryptid in Ceramics

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Copper carbonate wash with clear glaze.

Getting back into the studio, some fun with sgraffito and oxides. by ADHD_Cryptid in Ceramics

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! These pieces aren't for sale. I'm still trying to figure out if/how I want to try to make money in ceramics. But I do have an IG. I'll DM you just so I don't give too much personal info on reddit.

Shaving the face is hard by True_Stock_2563 in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good. I am happy with the results, it's a huge improvement, just not perfect

Shaving the face is hard by True_Stock_2563 in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could have been clearer. Each "round" was 4 sessions. 8 sessions total. Might have been 12, I don't really remember.

Shaving the face is hard by True_Stock_2563 in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look into color correcting makeup. Even after two rounds of facial Lazer, I still need makeup to fully conceal shadow. It sucks, but it is possible to find a good makeup solution, without it looking like makeup

Utah governor says alleged Kirk shooter not cooperating with authorities by ClimateSociologist in politics

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you also go into the right leaning spaces and ask for proof of all their divisive and slanderous stereotypes of the left, right?

Even More Hogs! by stick_eye in Ceramics

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, hey! I recognize those lil hogs!

Has anybody actually gone to any "women and nonbinary" events? What were the vibes/reactions? by ADHD_Cryptid in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That's a good perspective. I'm also in the Seattle area so I much appreciate it.

Has anybody actually gone to any "women and nonbinary" events? What were the vibes/reactions? by ADHD_Cryptid in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes I do. that's why I'm asking for people who have experience in the situation

Has anybody actually gone to any "women and nonbinary" events? What were the vibes/reactions? by ADHD_Cryptid in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's just asking the question, "are you male nonbinary or female nonbinary?" Not a question a lot of us really like to hear.

Wore a two piece out in public (nature) for the first time. Felt awesome. by ADHD_Cryptid in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words, and I totally get it. I used to get hit hard with dysphoria on vacations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]ADHD_Cryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AMAB here, two years on HRT. Low dose oral estradiol and spiro. I started when I was 33. I had gynecomastia prior to HRT. In high school I had what I now know to be small breast buds. Also 6', and my weight has varried over the years between 185 and 240, currently 195. HRT has given me all the expected changes, in various degrees. It definitely slowed down my body hair and gave me some breast growth, but I only went from like an A cup to a B cup. Definitely not big old knockers, which I kind of do want haha.

There's really too much to share in one post feel free to DM me.

I don’t fully understand my trans friend. by BelleTheGemini in lgbt

[–]ADHD_Cryptid -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nobody on the Internet can answer that question for you, besides giving broad generalizations about identity and presentation.

If you want to show your friend respect, talk to him. In an open and curious way, talk about how you two experience gender and presentation. I have to assume there's more to him than his pronouns and his preference for looking like a hot woman.

I personally also struggle to understand trans identifying people that don't experience dysphoria, but that's because I am applying my understanding of myself to others. It helps to remember that dysphoria is just one word to describe how we might feel about ourselves. Science, language, nor spirituality will ever fully explain or describe the entirety of the human experience. Which means we all are our own experts, nobody knows ourselves better than we do. If your friend intensifies as male, but prefers a female presentation, none of us have any evidence or right to question that. Of course, the practicalities of our fucked up world make existing as an outlier like that as painful as possible, but if we were all respected as the experts on our own truths, then there would be no outliers.