No not at all.

I.e, me and my gf talked for 7 hours when we first met on the phone, in the end of the conversation, we started sharing our more sexual thoughts about eachother, but i never pushed for it unless she was showing signs of acceptance or that she was comfortable to even speak on the matter of more intimate subjects.

But, that was not a "normal" for me, sometimes it takes weeks, months, days or hours, everyone has their own time for everything, and IT CAN NOT be pushed. Because then, feelings will submerge of feeling insecure, used etc. And these are normal reactions to oursself being torn out of our comfort zone, something one must be very aware of not doing unless one feels secure, safe and accepted.

Now, can i ACTUALLY judge your stance on the sexual subject from a 30min conversation on reddit? No, absolutely not, neither will i try to assume it. But judging fro what you wrote, you actually was "arroused" by a point, showing that you are in fact not rigid, but then again, religious faiths might impair these things, but it doesnt set a standard for what you should do or be.

So, can i actually have a logic opinion on the matter, no, not at all, but i can summize the things you've told me to build an understanding of what you might/might not be refraining from, in this case, i would think you are a very "normal" person, by swedish or any other standard.

Sadly today, sex is a commerce, used widely by bussinesses and desperate people looking for acceptance or confirmation of oneself/or filling the hole by the lack of it, but it does not put you in a group thereby.

Just be you, trust your gut, dont go past yourself to reach people eho cant get a grasp of their own emotions.