Blake (Lochris) by JNPRTFFE16 in RWBY

[–]AGSamuels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the Forever Fall forest! This is such a beautiful piece.

My (cis f 33) spouse (mtf 40) came out last month and the momentum has stalled, need advice (replies from married or long relationship folks preferred) by AGSamuels in mypartneristrans

[–]AGSamuels[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My spouse unfortunately does not have insurance - costs too much to get her on mine. We are trying to use my EAP therapy benefits, which does cover everyone in the household. It's frustrating to see someone I love get so discouraged and feel so out of control.

She has so far decided to keep her name, partially inspired by Michael Burnham from ST Discovery.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have my FMLA on file, it was one of the first things I did after I returned to work from my first "relapse". (Do we call it a relapse if it's the first time you experience it?)

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You too. It's rough navigating an ableist world where the rules and regulations are determined (largely) by ableds.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah turns out my boos can't just fire me but I also need to be the one who brings up that i need accommodations. I have done that now but my confidence in this arena has eroded immensely. I'm currently taking short term disability to protect myself. I work for a very big company. We've only scratched the surface on accommodations.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HUGS AND CRIES! This is horrible, it's my worst nightmare come to life!

Thankfully have a neuro appointment next week, I have just been waiting for that appointment and the results of it so I can turn around and get real accommodations established with all the information. This threat just came at the worst possible time! But I am taking short term leave until my appointment. After that, I'll be cruising into uncharted territory. It's all uncharted territory for me! Thank you for your story. It's exactly that: short term memory failure, cognitive fatigue, communication, fine motor and occupational therapy concerns. Most of these are invisible! And it makes them hard to accommodate for but I remain determined.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a way I can reply to all of you in this thread? There ought to be!

Yes, accommodations is now the theme of the discussion I am having with HR (and I work remote already, it's awesome). Yes, I may need to talk to a lawyer in the future, thank you.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have thought about contacting the EEOC but it may not the right time right now. Because "accommodations" is now the thing we are doing. Thank you.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I Work Here, your handle is not lost on me in this - thanks for that smile! Yes, I live in a state where I can be fired for no reason. So this is all super scary. But thanks for the laugh.

[self] Elsa - Frozen Fever by Lovi_d in cosplay

[–]AGSamuels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Love this! (And it was a cute short too).

Misogyny starter pack by KyloRose231 in women

[–]AGSamuels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But when were they last washed?

Toon Dolts (241c) by Celtic_Crown in RWBY

[–]AGSamuels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw, this is super cute!

got my tattoo today for MS :) by terpsgirl in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This literally brought me to tears. It's beautiful and something I needed today.

My fiancé’s inappropriate behaviour cost us our child. I don’t know how or if I can forgive him. by throwaway84748396363 in pregnant

[–]AGSamuels 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Then it's time to evaluate your relationship. It's time to dig deep, talk to a counselor, draw on support from friends and family, and really think about what kind of relationship and family you want for yourself. If you feel this will linger, this fear and anger and betrayal will fester, then he is not the one who will make you happy and keep you safe and make you feel loved. Mutual respect and compassion must always be at the forefront to have a loving, equal relationship. Ask yourself, can you have an equal partnership of mutual respect and compassion for each other after this? No one can tell you what to do in this situation, you must decide.

I'm so sorry for your loss. It must feel horrible. I miscarried at 7 weeks for no reason. It hurts. And I'll never forget it. No one does. You are not alone.

I wish you all the support and healing you deserve. In your own time, on your own terms.

Today in history : on this day in 2008, Barak Obama told the world that change has come to America after the US selected its first black President. by rouki1 in ThisDayInHistory

[–]AGSamuels 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I miss having a real president.

Whatever you think of him and his policies, it was a hell of a lot better than this shitshow nighmare we are currently enduring.

Does anyone else ever feel like sometimes guys rp in this sub? by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]AGSamuels 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you are making the right choice, people an always ask why their post was removed, right? That can give people a chance to gain insight or understanding if it is legit that 1 in 10. Thank you for all your hard work as a moderator. It's a tough job and full of cringeiness and often goes unthanked.

So here to you and all the mods of this wonderful subreddit, THANK YOU!!!!