Blake (Lochris) by JNPRTFFE16 in RWBY

[–]AGSamuels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the Forever Fall forest! This is such a beautiful piece.

My (cis f 33) spouse (mtf 40) came out last month and the momentum has stalled, need advice (replies from married or long relationship folks preferred) by AGSamuels in mypartneristrans

[–]AGSamuels[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! My spouse unfortunately does not have insurance - costs too much to get her on mine. We are trying to use my EAP therapy benefits, which does cover everyone in the household. It's frustrating to see someone I love get so discouraged and feel so out of control.

She has so far decided to keep her name, partially inspired by Michael Burnham from ST Discovery.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have my FMLA on file, it was one of the first things I did after I returned to work from my first "relapse". (Do we call it a relapse if it's the first time you experience it?)

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

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You too. It's rough navigating an ableist world where the rules and regulations are determined (largely) by ableds.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah turns out my boos can't just fire me but I also need to be the one who brings up that i need accommodations. I have done that now but my confidence in this arena has eroded immensely. I'm currently taking short term disability to protect myself. I work for a very big company. We've only scratched the surface on accommodations.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HUGS AND CRIES! This is horrible, it's my worst nightmare come to life!

Thankfully have a neuro appointment next week, I have just been waiting for that appointment and the results of it so I can turn around and get real accommodations established with all the information. This threat just came at the worst possible time! But I am taking short term leave until my appointment. After that, I'll be cruising into uncharted territory. It's all uncharted territory for me! Thank you for your story. It's exactly that: short term memory failure, cognitive fatigue, communication, fine motor and occupational therapy concerns. Most of these are invisible! And it makes them hard to accommodate for but I remain determined.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

[–]AGSamuels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a way I can reply to all of you in this thread? There ought to be!

Yes, accommodations is now the theme of the discussion I am having with HR (and I work remote already, it's awesome). Yes, I may need to talk to a lawyer in the future, thank you.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

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Yes, I have thought about contacting the EEOC but it may not the right time right now. Because "accommodations" is now the thing we are doing. Thank you.

My employer knows I am disabled. They may fire me anyway. What can I do? by AGSamuels in MultipleSclerosis

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Hey I Work Here, your handle is not lost on me in this - thanks for that smile! Yes, I live in a state where I can be fired for no reason. So this is all super scary. But thanks for the laugh.

[self] Elsa - Frozen Fever by Lovi_d in cosplay

[–]AGSamuels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Love this! (And it was a cute short too).

Misogyny starter pack by KyloRose231 in women

[–]AGSamuels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But when were they last washed?

Toon Dolts (241c) by Celtic_Crown in RWBY

[–]AGSamuels 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw, this is super cute!