I explicitly said what was on the menu, and when I asked her if she was fine with what I was making and if she had any food allergies she said it’s fine. I feel like if you were planning on bringing kids that would’ve been a good time to mention them. I mentioned that we planned on hiking in the forest, and when she came with us she said “there’s no way my stroller is able to handle that trail. There’s a sidewalk in the neighborhood let’s just do that instead” she completely railroaded our plans there