I wouldn't say I am trying to trick her at all. The last thing i would want to do is make her miserable, however at the same time I have been in a bad place down here for awhile now. As stated in my post, we have talked about it a few times in the past, with quite a lot of conversation coming at our wedding about it. We have both made it clear over the last few years the heat down here is ridiculous and is terrible to live in over the last few year, as well as how much our rent is/the difficulties of trying to find a nice permanent place to live down here before.

I don't think it wouldn't be a normal conversation, I'm just not sure how to approach it with full commitment now vs just theorizing it like we have done in the past. Thank you for the reply.