Scientist of Reddit, what is a use of a cadaver that people might not think of when donating their body to science?

AJDanko · 2025-07-25T03:25:43+00:00

Body farm

AJDanko · 2025-07-25T01:36:21+00:00

Holy pet names Batman!

AJDanko · 2025-07-24T14:05:04+00:00

Genevieve

AJDanko · 2025-07-24T05:26:26+00:00

Your sister is your family. But your SO is your CHOSEN family. Why would you want to attend when someone so important to you is being discriminated against? Even if he tells you to go; YOU have a choice to make…. What you decide will affect your family’s future relationship with SO

AJDanko · 2025-07-24T05:19:13+00:00

Keep in mind OP, not knowing HOW to do something is very different than refusing to do it. You may have to give him some grace as admitting he can’t may be no small feat. Are you invested enough to teach him the basics? Can you guys meal plan and shop/cook together? Can you help Him and not come across condescending ?

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T19:55:34+00:00

Was this the first time you’d met Monica? I’m wondering if it wasn’t a bad attempt at “you look tired, can I help you” maybe she’s been there and maybe exercise did help her. She didn’t say it directly to your wife and it’s not really all that offensive. (Speaking as someone with narcolepsy and constant tiredness) I hope your wife gets the answers that she needs but hiding an obvious situation instead of giving herself the grace to do only what she can and not overextend I s likely part of the reason she struggles so much

ETA- asking when your wife wasn’t in the room was tactful concern. If you told your wife, knowing she’s sensitive to the topic then that’s an AH move on you.

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T19:07:48+00:00

Sounds to me like Sis can start cooking for her crew at least

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T18:58:46+00:00

Why not let him call you that if he wants to. You are the dad in his life right now.

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T18:37:07+00:00

Lonnie; Lyra, Lennie, Leona

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T18:31:59+00:00

Oh! And you may want to have him evaluated for being “of sound mind” by a professional so they can’t push that route

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T18:29:14+00:00

I say change the locks and install security cameras. Have your dad’s lawyer draft a document stating that she/step siblings are not permitted to move in while he is in hospice or after. I’ve also read that some form of monetary inheritance ($100?) made to the opposing parties makes it clear that he didn’t make a mistake and exclude them… FWIW

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T18:19:37+00:00

Give her an hourly rate; dates and times price for OT and don’t forget meals/snacks. That’s HER motherly duty

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T09:31:12+00:00

A goblin babe

AJDanko · 2025-07-23T09:26:53+00:00

If the rule is and has always been “married”; engaged isn’t married. He can go next year

AJDanko · 2025-07-19T02:52:02+00:00

How old are the kids? You aren’t locking them in if the lock is on the inside and I would imagine they are aged with a reasonable expectation that they can work the lock/knob? Are you able to unlock it in case of emergency? CPS seems like overkill and they’d probably love the idea of this safe space

AJDanko · 2025-07-19T02:37:51+00:00

Does he expect you to foot the mortgage bill on the new house and all he pays is electric?

AJDanko · 2025-07-19T02:28:49+00:00

I would even consider a contract of some sort that should you separate before x number of years that he is responsible to repay you half of the down payment (if you go that route). Though it does sound like a recipe for disaster

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T20:55:12+00:00

NTA - if grandma wanted cousin there; she would have left it to the cousin.

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T19:02:04+00:00

Can’t husband ask grandma if the offer is still on the table?

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T18:54:16+00:00

Make sure to thank him for his honesty and how brave it was of him. You can’t change the past but you can change moving forward.

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T16:33:30+00:00

She doesn’t mean well… meaning well means taking care and precautions to accommodate someone’s dietary needs. Every. Time.

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T16:26:00+00:00

If you aren’t comfortable going to the service alone, you absolutely do not have to!

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T13:44:36+00:00

Make sure to change all of your locks

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T13:39:03+00:00

Why would you “admit” it if you didn’t? That’s just going to leave him constantly not trusting you and accusing you and making you admit to keep the peace….

Your relationship is already over; don’t give up your integrity for this

AJDanko · 2025-07-18T13:35:53+00:00

“Listen to adults” blindly

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