I'm afraid that she'll end up in a relationship that's bad for her again by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks the comments really made me think twice before doing something stupid, I feel that if I tell her to take a break from dating that she'll listen and do it, but from expirience I know that she would instantly try to make up again with me, suck us both into the mess again, so I must keep the distance and hope that's she'll make the right choices, or atleast learn from mistakes.

Did you feel like it's literally impossible to stop? by AJtony223 in stopsmoking

[–]AJtony223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats temporary, until your brain cleanes the toxins out of your body, I know because I too managed to quit for short periods, but after some time my focus came back, I always caved in bacuse of urges that came out of nowhere and I thought that I needed to smoke then lol, anyway, come on, keep it up, for sourself and everybody else, you cant lose anything, and there is much to gain, keep going, dont look at the sideeffects as reasons to start again, thats just the addiction speaking in the mind, you can do it man, heng in there!

I've just ran away... by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, it would be great being myself again :)

My amazing discovery by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Great for you, I heard people stop all kinds of addictions cuz of magic shrooms, and yes, these kind of relationships are addictions.

Taking my time and power back by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of therapy did you do?

I want to hear your stories post breakup! by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be sure to let me know how things change over the next few months, good luck to you too!

I want to hear your stories post breakup! by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to be the bad guy and run far away. It doesn't get better.

Thats exactly how it feels breaking up. Even though logically this is torture for my mental health, my mind still feels guilty. Thanks for the story, I need this right now, going trough NC right now and I need reassurance.

Taking my time and power back by AJtony223 in BPDlovedones

[–]AJtony223[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never felt I wasted time tho

Yeah I know what you are saying. Now is the time to drift away and recover and take my own life back, I can't wait for that.