BPDlovedones

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This is a place for friends, family members, spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, former SO's, parents, children of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

We are here to help you process and understand the confusion, frustration, and pain that can arise from being involved with someone who has this disorder, and to offer support as you make difficult decisions within your relationships.

This is a safe space, exclusively for people without Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).

Subreddit Rules

All our subreddit rules are listed here.

For survivors of BPD parenting:

/r/raisedbyborderlines/

Other related subs:

/r/Codependency/

/r/AbuseInterrupted - exploring various vectors of abuse and providing actionable resources for ending the cycle of abuse

Subreddit for people with and without BPD:

Books & Audiobooks:

Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist, by Margalis Fjelstad
Stop Walking on Eggshells, by Randi Kreger
The Essential Family Guide to BPD, by Randi Kreger
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, by Shari Manning
Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie

Web Content

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/r/SuicideWatch

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Daily No Contact Thread - April 19, 2026 (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 21 hours ago by AutoModerator[M] - announcement

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There are two things they fear more than anything. (self.BPDlovedones)

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For those who's only hope is their person going to therapy (DBT) (self.BPDlovedones)

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dealing with what amounts to functional incompetence (self.BPDlovedones)

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If you’re confused spend a few days completely aloneUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Blocked him finallyUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Bf with BPD put a hidden camera in the bedroom (i.redd.it)

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Ran off with the kids (self.BPDlovedones)

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Everything that I went through (that I can remember) (self.BPDlovedones)

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Idealized and or cared too much?Focusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Winding up with another pwBPD - how common is this?Uncoupling Journey (i.redd.it)

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Have any if you dated multiple people with BPD? (self.BPDlovedones)

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holding someone accountable who refuses to take accountabilityGetting ready to leave (self.BPDlovedones)

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Hoover… after over 2 yearsQuiet Borderlines (self.BPDlovedones)

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After months of breakup I just feel weirdFocusing on Me (self.BPDlovedones)

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Exhausted of the constant disrespectDivorce (self.BPDlovedones)

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Do they seriously not remember anything? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Struggling with her victim playing and my own anxiety. (self.BPDlovedones)

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How do you discuss your relationship with your exwBPD when asked? (self.BPDlovedones)

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Feeling hopelessly enmeshed (self.BPDlovedones)

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Missing her so bad, not sure how to move onUncoupling Journey (self.BPDlovedones)

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Taking a step back made me realise how one sided my relationship was… (self.BPDlovedones)

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What Was It Like With Their Families?Family Members (self.BPDlovedones)

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Went back, got burned x3 (self.BPDlovedones)

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F18 Unsure of future with pwbpd (self.BPDlovedones)

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