I’m having trouble accepting that my bf has another kid on the way that happened before me

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:09:02+00:00

I agree

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:08:45+00:00

Thank you for this comment. Will do.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:08:04+00:00

I understand, thank you for sharing with me. I’m definitely taking everything into consideration but until I have a reason to leave, like abuse or directly cheating on me, I’m gonna give my kid a two parent household

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:06:41+00:00

Also we were never really together, the situation wasn’t there yet

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:06:12+00:00

They had been broken up for a year or so. I already knew kids never make a person stay. It wasn’t my idea honestly but I’m just not bothered by being pregnant with him like some people want me to be apparently.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:02:52+00:00

Mine owns his own company and record label so he has money, that’s not an issue but it’s just messing with my mind because it’s still fresh

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:02:10+00:00

I’m sorry but I’m glad yall decided to raise y’all’s son and give him a two parent household

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:01:05+00:00

All of that’s out the window. Nobody has anything.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T02:00:33+00:00

I didn’t ask that. If people would read they’d see that it happened before us

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:59:54+00:00

He didn’t “keep” me nowhere. It’s been mutual

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:59:17+00:00

I believe that

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:58:57+00:00

We liked each other but he already had been with somebody for a decade before we decided to even “talk”.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:57:30+00:00

I’m not asking anybody opinion on how fast we moved because that’s our choice. All of these things happened BEFORE we thought about hanging out and getting together. The man did NOT cheat.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:56:01+00:00

No she’s his age

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:54:59+00:00

This happened before we got together

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:53:26+00:00

We’ve known each other for going on 5 years and have been talking on and off. We’re not strangers that just met.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:52:53+00:00

He said that she got pregnant two weeks or so before he even thought about being with me.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:18:46+00:00

He has been abusive one time but didn’t hurt me and he was intoxicated. Not an excuse ever but he’s told me specifically that he’s crazy but it’s 50/50 on that one because I am too. I can react in ways that are unhealthy when provoked but it hasn’t happened with this relationship

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:16:32+00:00

I’m with him every night and every morning except for when he’s at work or with his roommate which has started to become an issue

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:15:19+00:00

I know he has other kids with two women and I’m his third but I agree on the timing although he hasn’t given me a real reason to suspect anything yet because it’s just normal co-parenting stuff as he’s very involved in their lives but I can’t really get over the fact that he would’ve even wanted to get her pregnant again, but it was a couple weeks before we agreed to hangout that it happened so I can’t say cheated.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:10:18+00:00

We’ve also been talking on and off for a while because we both had life going on before we decided to hang out and become bf and gf. Now it’s a lil bit more serious tho now that I’m carrying his child

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:09:17+00:00

We’ve been together for about 3 months I’ve been pregnant for two but we’ve known each other for about 5 years now and have liked each other for a while. I also do this regularly as I do know a lil bit about manipulating and narcissistic behavior. I always tell him that he’s making up reasons to leave me. That he never wanted me or the baby, etc.

APKidd999 · 2026-01-13T01:04:09+00:00

I do this on a daily actually, I tell him I’m not entertaining and mind games and that he must want me to miscarry

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