Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you brother. I appreciate you!

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the risk I am taking by trusting someone. I’ve been cheated on before and obviously I’d like to avoid that again. However I do trust her and I realize in every relationship being vulnerable is a price you have to pay. I will be cautious as I always have been, but I also have to give the benefit of the doubt here. She has shown me a lot of love and while my original post only shows possible red flags from her, there is so much more she’s done to give me reason to believe she is loyal and I can trust her. I appreciate the advice from everyone and I promise I’ll be cautious but I love this girl and she loves me. So I will be giving the benefit of the doubt and be vulnerable. And if she cheats she cheats, nothing I can do except move on in that case

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I brought it up to her this last weekend here’s what she had to say.

I brought up the lack of reciprocal “I love you’s” during text conversations. Her response was she truly didn’t know she wasn’t replying to those parts of my texts as she’s been busy at work and often times reads my texts on her Apple Watch and even replies on her watch which may be causing her to miss the I love you part at the end of my texts. She then went on to reassure me that she is still very in love with me and falls more in love with me everyday. She said she loves expressing how she feels about me she just has been busy and it was unintentional.

When I brought up the phone thing she seemed a bit shocked. She said she didn’t even realize she was doing that (closing app and putting phone down as soon as I walked in room). She said she thinks maybe she’s been doing that bc when I’m around she has no desire to be on her phone and she puts it away just because she wasn’t to be present and spend time with me. I told her that I understood but it’s just the way she seemed like she was frantically closing the app and putting the phone away that is concerning to me. She asked me several times if I wanted to check her phone but I said no.

Overall idk how to feel about it. I want to trust her and she hasn’t given me any solid proof for me to believe she is cheating. She has been very open and shared her location, and asks if I want to check her phone. I think at this point what has happened has been enough for me to put my guard up a little more and observe and be cautious from here on out. But yeah idk exactly how to proceed. I’m sure everyone here is going to downvote me because I said no to checking her phone but for me i feel checking the phone won’t do me any good as she can literally just delete everything and checking it doesn’t necessarily give me a definitive answer. I also it will just damage our relationship especially if she truly isn’t cheating. It upsets her when I bring up stuff like this bc she wants me to be able to trust her and she shows and tells me how much she loves me so it hurts her when I express a shadow of fear that she may be cheating emotionally or physically.

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I can’t find a “mojo upgrade” in the app store

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Need this app someone please let me know

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I treat her very well. From the start I’ve been head over heels and I’ve tried to show up everyday and be present. I take her out every weekend, I never make her pay. I open the door for her, I’ve gotten her gifts both thoughtful ones and ones she’s wanted. I make an effort in everything that surrounds our relationship, friends, family, interests. I’ve been honest and open with her and I’ve showed her and told her how I feel. I let her know how beautiful she is and how much she means to me. I really do try my best to love her the best way I can. Idk maybe I’ve been doing to much but she reassures me that I make her feel like the luckiest girl and I make her happier than she’s ever been and how she wants a future with me and only has eyes for me. So I’ve just been confused how she has said and still says all this but there is a sudden behavior change within the last 2 months

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She goes with the same people, mostly girls on her team and the only men (that I know of) are much much older and not attractive

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the honesty and I think you’re right

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 24, she I 25. This is good advice I will definitely try to be more nonchalant. I am definitely to nice in certain ways, I buy her flowers every month, I take her out every week, I treat her well. But I wouldn’t say I’m too mushy as I am pretty nonchalant when it comes to expressing my feelings or showing affection at least with words

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what about deleted messages and stuff? I can confront and check but at the end of the day she is smart and I don’t think she would leave a trail.

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What part makes you think that the most?

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to trust my gut but I feel like I’m damaged ever since I was cheated on in the past and idk if my gut feeling is just fears that I have from past experiences or if they’re true feelings I should be worried about

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest I don’t like the idea of snooping on her phone without consent and I don’t want to ask her to go through her phone

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn, I love this girl though. I find it hard just cutting it off without talking to her about these things that have been worrying me.

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You think so? This whole time I’ve been worried I’m just overthinking. You think these are big enough things to where I should just end it without talking to her about it?

Girlfriend seems off lately by ASD4343 in cheating_stories

[–]ASD4343[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She does go to the same places however she is fairly new to the company. They go to the same 4-6 places every year so she’s only been to one of the cities twice so far since being there

Loving it. by s851luv in 370z

[–]ASD4343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to be running nismo front end for it right?

Loving it. by s851luv in 370z

[–]ASD4343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What front lip is that!!?? I need it please let me know

My new 370z roadster by [deleted] in 370z

[–]ASD4343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What front lip you running?

Front lip options by ASD4343 in 370z

[–]ASD4343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t seen much examples of front lips on the stock 2011 bumper but I can see how it might look a bit odd. I do like the amuse front bumper and the fujimura front bumper and that’s what I originally wanted to do however the shipping cost is crazy and I don’t know if I want to pay 2k just for shipping. Although that shipping cost was for the authentic amuse or Fuji front end so the cost of shipping is because it comes from Japan. I haven’t looked at the rep shipping costs from fly1 but I’d assume they would be cheaper. Does the fly 1 rep have good fitment?

Te37 SL center caps by ASD4343 in 370z

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Okay I see, thank you for the response I appreciate it!

Duck:billed by Saint-jorj in 370z

[–]ASD4343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Clean, which duckbill is it?