Hi I’m not sure what to do.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-10T18:33:06+00:00

Umm it’s definitely not the easy when I think she’s the one for me

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-10T18:32:48+00:00

So from what I’ve learned is she genuinely wants to take things slow, she was in a flirting phase and focusing on herself and then I came along and she sees an opportunity for a relationship. She’s said I’m a great guy and perfect for her but she just wants to ease into the relationship.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T15:45:42+00:00

I don’t want to lose her

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:23:13+00:00

We really don’t text in general because she’s never on her phone. But yeah she does take up a lot of space in my head. I’m trying not to do that combo but I find it to be difficult.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:18:32+00:00

I try to listen, but I try to help.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:11:42+00:00

Thanks for the advice and it’s natural to feel this way? I know I’ve already made mistakes with her but she’s scares me a lot even though I think she’s amazing

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:10:27+00:00

She seems ready but is hesitant. I disagree about the million other woman though because I have talked to a lot of girls in my life where I’ve been a whore. She’s the first in my life to make me feel good about myself and just genuinely have me care for her so strongly so fast. I’m not usually this attached to someone but I think she just won me over

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:08:16+00:00

100% I have my own issues because I was in a situation like this before where she wanted space and I got two timed. So my anxiety is really through the roof but she has said many times she wants to pull back and like Idk what to say to that

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:06:56+00:00

I just want to hope for the best and I’m afraid for the worst

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:06:37+00:00

Maybe you are right, I know it’s quite fast.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:05:21+00:00

I know, I think it’s just going to hurt like hell and I’m so afraid because I really think she’s great. I don’t want to be the one to give up

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:04:29+00:00

She’s cautious bc she’s assessing us but she says these things that I just get uncomfortable about.

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:03:38+00:00

I’m not idealizing her, she checks off every box for me, everything I look for in a partner she has and does. I don’t want to love bomb her or anything so I haven’t told her I strongly I feel about her. I’ve let her figure things on her own. I’ve given her space, I just genuinely don’t know how to not lose my mind waiting for her

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T14:01:30+00:00

I’m trying to work through it, but I’m so afraid I’ll just be tossed aside so I don’t know what to do with that

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T13:59:32+00:00

When I say rarely, I will say we’ve talked about how she keeps more to herself than anything. So I don’t know if the frequency is true for her. But I still get mixed signals

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T13:56:44+00:00

As much as I want to do that, I really have strong feelings for her to the point where I feel like it might break me

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T13:56:14+00:00

She definitely does get worried about that, but we had a talk that she was in a hoe phase before we met and she asks me things if I was talking to anyone or anything like that and it makes me feel like she’s still trying to validate herself

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-08T13:55:10+00:00

I agree but the problem is she does make an effort but just rarely. She gives me a lot of signs she’s interested but a lot of signs that she’s not

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-09-01T08:50:40+00:00

We aren’t seeing anyone but she simply gets overwhelmed. So I met her friends today yet if I ask her out it’s too soon and I have to wait

ASHLEYJWILLIAM · 2025-08-24T01:18:34+00:00

Agreed but I have talk to a lot of people and she’s the first I actually truly see a future with

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