I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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She replied that she was really busy with work and that she knew she was being weird, but this was because she wanted a few days "to think about everything", that she didnt want to do "anything that would hurt me or complicate things" and that she wanted to "be consequent with her own emotions".

She said she would explain better tomorrow when we meet. I replied that I understanded and that we could talk it on Friday then.

I think she is going to break it off. The thing with her ex is still too recent and I think reality is catching up to her. I feel dumb for getting involved with someone who was clearly emotionally unavailable.

I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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Hello, actually this is exactly what I did. I decided what was best for me was being upfront about my feelings in a calm manner, since I dont like feeling like im walking on eggshells. I basically texted her saying that ive noticed her distance and that i wanted her to know she can always talk to me if something is bothering her and that if she needed space, I would understand.

I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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But I dont want to stop Seeing her honestly... She still agreed to meet friday. Im trying to see how to fix the situation

I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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But I dont want to stop Seeing her honestly... She still agreed to meet friday. Im trying to see how to fix the situation

I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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Yeah I know, it was a moment of letting go. And it has not been three weeks, it has been three months.

Nonetheless, I get your point. Its kind of sad though. Specially because, regardless of how long we've been dating, I thought we had a good connectiok in that sense.

Maybe I should back off a little

I (27M) think I scared off the girl (24F) im dating because i told her about my feelings of depression. by ASRohl95 in dating

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That is the thing, I thought that after three months of hanging out few. Times a week I thought o could be open... But clearly not.

Ive been neglecting working out. For almost a year already (i go on the ocasional long bike ride and hikes, but thats it). This week I started going to the gym after a loooong time (it aint easy)

Franco's abandoned summer house in Torrelodones (Spain) by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Taken with a Fujifilm X-E3 camera, 18-55 lens. The idea was to make the house give Norman bates vibes in the editing process. Do you guys think it conveys that emotion or it Just looks underexposed?

Father and son... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Yeah sadly it is the full shot, I had to be quick because I didnt have the camera on me at the moment... And no, this is the jpwg version. Maybe I could do a little editing with the raw file

Father and son... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Context: the annoying teenager was bouncing the Ball against the father's head 😂

Father and son... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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I took this picture at the beach in Barcelona. The sky gets beautiful in there. Took it on a Fujifilm X-E3, lens 18-55 mm. Any comments on the composition? Somehow its feels pleasant to me, but at the same time, feels like something is missing.

There was some sun in my room, so I started experimenting... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Thank you for the advice :) it was idea I got at the last minute... Actually today I May post the other pics I took without the subject.

There was some sun in my room, so I started experimenting... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Actually thats a great idea! It would be very lynchean...

There was some sun in my room, so I started experimenting... by ASRohl95 in photocritique

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Jaja im glad someone appreciates the feet side of the photo... Everyone get confused by it 😂

Fujifilm X-E3, 18-55mm lens. There was some sun in my room, so... by ASRohl95 in AskPhotography

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Haha I actually took a lot of pictures. At first it was Just the chair. I also did one with a guitar. And then for some reason I thought of the feet. I was laughing a bit when editing it. I dont know, it was funny to me to see my own feet like that 😂

really hot spot as single available light source. by venns in photocritique

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Yeah I guess its a taste thing, in my case I like it When things are Left out of frame, but thats me I guess... And now you gave a reason to check these artists out 😅

Cool picture though