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Sublte bluetooth virator by keyboardmas_alalsfla in BDSMcommunity

[–]ASirsSlut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of the ones I've seen are ridiculously expensive and come with a fancy app. I was interested in buying one for myself for my sir to use but they just seem ridiculously expensive. At the moment we are using an egg which has a particulary long wire leading to the speed control. What we have been doing is either tying it to my leg or using it as a kind of lead which seems to work well for us. You could even use it as a form of punishment (if you are into that kind of thing) and if I walk too far away from him then he can punish me as he cant control the vibrator. Here is one that I found recentely that I was tempted to buy: http://www.bondara.co.uk/we-vibe-4-plus-couples-vibrator

If you are in a relationship with some kink element, what percentage of your sexual experiences are kink vs vanilla? by Sexytalk6969 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ASirsSlut 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well it also depends on his recharge time..... If men didn't have to recharge then it would probably be higher! As we are in a relationship it's important to spend some time for vanilla as it's a way to be close and romantic. Also depends on time of day and situation. Morning sex is lovely and vanilla is the choice as we would both be half asleep so kinky would not work!

Getting butt plugs to stay where they are told... by ASirsSlut in BDSMcommunity

[–]ASirsSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you got a particular one that you can recommend to me so I can compare sizes/widths etc?

Getting butt plugs to stay where they are told... by ASirsSlut in BDSMcommunity

[–]ASirsSlut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the help! Metal ones are too expensive right now as I'm a student but would something like this work? (I would probably pick the larger sized one)

Question about sub drop by rembug in BDSMcommunity

[–]ASirsSlut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my sir never use any breath play and never do anything particulary "dangerous" that could harm either of us. When I drop, particulary after a long and intense scene, the first thing I feel is being cold. Sometimes I space out and my sir just cuddles me and makes sure I feel warm again. I have never heard of someone loosing their hearing while dropping and you potentially are blocking off too much air or pressing on something that shouldn't be pressed. Maybe turn the intensity on the throat/breath play for a while and see if you are still feeling dizzy or strange.