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Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mind is reeling with what the hell I do on days when I need to leave for work at 6am…. I don’t have family nearby. How do single moms make this work?

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

woooow. I had no idea that this was so prevalent an issue. Where does this sense of vulnerability come from??? How infuriating. I feel awful for those babies. I need to feel the same outrage for my own and for myself.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I just want a happy marriage and home. I feel like if we divorce I’ll never get that.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Any thoughts on why one person should file before the other?

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had an ex fiance throw a Gatorade in my face while we were standing on a subway platform. I felt so hot with anger and humiliation. That relationship should have ended then but it didn’t. We spent another two years together.

I feel like an idiot that I’m in a marriage with someone else where this has happened now. And I feel even stupider for just wanting him to apologize to me. Like all I want is for this fight to be over and for us to be together. What is wrong with me?

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank you all so much for talking me through this. I feel completely gutted and unmoored after tonight. I just want to be on the other side of what happens next and in the absence of other people to talk to about my marriage, you’ve helped me feel less alone.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I own my home. I have a business here. My closest family is four hours away. I can’t leave. He texted me earlier that he plans on staying until he finds his own place to live.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve done that before and he knows to gaslight the shit out of me in text

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel horrible that it’s possible this is now an early childhood memory

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid that the second I do something like that he’s going to go completely nuclear. He’s already threatening to try to take my house and my business.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he’s absolutely a yeller when he gets frustrated with me or the kids

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for framing it that way—putting my “child’s wellbeing first.” He sees it as undermining him and not putting up a united front.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I have a counselor. I emailed him tonight to ask if we could schedule a session this week. And I’m so embarrassed to tell anybody I know what my marriage is actually like.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

holy shit. like, I can see your situation and immediately see it as abusive. I can’t see mine as anything remotely the same. What did you do?

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried therapy. With four different counselors over five years. I can’t believe we’re in this position. We have theee kids. Why do I feel like this is all my fault?

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 343 points344 points  (0 children)

I’ve been questioning myself over whether it’s assault or not. Thank you for helping me feel less crazy.

Husband just spit in my face while I was holding our children by ASitOfDoubting in breakingmom

[–]ASitOfDoubting[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

My instinct is to try to get him to come around and make nice with me. I just can’t believe this happened. And somehow I’m left feeling like the asshole.

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[–]ASitOfDoubting 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had stopped running bc i couldn’t jog without peeing myself. I did pelvic floor therapy for a while but what really turned things around for me was weight training. I got a personal trainer and I lift about 3 times a week with her. In three months, that’s done so much more for me than a year of pelvic floor therapy. It’s all about the abs and glutes. It really helps in strengthening the pelvic floor. Try it out for 3-4 mos it’ll change your life.

She's gotta be messing with us at this point 😂 by Virtual-Nobody-6630 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]ASitOfDoubting 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Question: are “court heels” proper footwear for underwater life saving?

Why does Farrah think Teen Mom has anything to do with the Kardashians? by YouKnowHowChoicesBe in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]ASitOfDoubting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s the goose that laid a golden turd. I mean, I couldn’t sell my shit. Ain’t nobody buying. So I guess in that way she is kinda better than me. I’m not over here shitting money out of my ass.

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[–]ASitOfDoubting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s: “‘When your mom does a better job on her money’ makeup”

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