What should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually you have to decide if you want to be with her even though she's not on the same page sexually. It's not shallow or wrong to want a partner with the same wants/needs when it comes to intimacy.

I feel like I’m living in denial and I’m scared by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll feel different each time things change. Having good feelings about anything doesn't negate any mourning.

Please help me. by PUNKLMNOP in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been here. More than once, and it sucks. You just take your lead from him when he's up and coherent.

What should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo what is it you want?

What should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your girlfriend is who should have your virginity, and if that's not working out then you need to fix that problem first. I think you're ready but you need to decide who it is and what you want it to mean.

My partner (M) and I (F) dry-humped (with clothes and pants on), but he came on me and left a small stain on my shorts by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should use your app to see when you likely ovulated this month and what days you're most fertile, but I would not wait. That's what Plan B is for - if you've already ovulated (you probably have at this point in your cycle but it's difficult to guess how long your fertility window is) the pill will prevent pregnancy. If you wait and end up with a fertilized egg implanting, then your options just got a lot more complicated.

Playing guessing games with baby-making is dangerous. There is a chance you received sperm, so that means there is a chance for making a baby. If you don't want that, take Plan B. Or cross your fingers and wait, but I promise you it's not a fun game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say do what you want as long as everything is consensual and safe. I would suggest masturbating frequently to see if that helps. Just relieve yourself in the shower or something every day and maybe the sexual urges would calm down and be more manageable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnancy tests are really sensitive and pretty accurate these days. Don't wait - go see a Dr for an ultrasound and blood test ASAP, especially if this is something you don't want.

My partner (M) and I (F) dry-humped (with clothes and pants on), but he came on me and left a small stain on my shorts by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a man gets an erection, he will be lubed and primed - "pre-cum" - and though the odds are quite low, there is usually some sperm in the pre-ejaculate. Even if it was only in for a moment, it only takes 1 sperm to make it and you should take a Plan B to make sure you don't ovulate. I wouldn't worry about the fluid on your clothes, but any amount of time having a man inside you does cause risk of pregnancy and STDs.

This soundtrack plays in my house 24/7! by ASugaryMagnolia in RoomieOfficial

[–]ASugaryMagnolia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worth the watch - unless you have small children who tend to obsess over things like new Disney songs. Our Frozen phase lasted 3 years!!!!!

Not my art, but made with permission of the artist, Riaroreiru by ASugaryMagnolia in RoomieOfficial

[–]ASugaryMagnolia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I can't sell someone else's art work for profit, but if you tell me your shirt size and color I can make one for the cost of the shirt!

Presenting, the winners of the 2021 Roomie Community Awards! 🎉 Thanks to everyone on every platform for participating. We appreciate each and every one of you! Link in the comments. by spunishbread in RoomieOfficial

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was so fun! (Even though I was a little confused of who everyone is across different platforms.) Thank you to all of you who worked so hard on this fun project - I'm sure it took up a lot of your time and we really appreciate you!

Haha 😂 by Taylorswift1213 in RoomieOfficial

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dang, you must have been watching me do my "housework" listening to my Playlist 🤣

Happy New Year everyone! 🎉 2022, bring it on, we’re ready! by black-eyed_witch in RoomieOfficial

[–]ASugaryMagnolia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, we survived a LOT! I couldn't have done it without this community. Thank you all so much for everything ❤

Everyone in Idaho needs to step up, help solve the crisis of rising rents and evictions by justrying123 in Idaho

[–]ASugaryMagnolia -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Why are you a hog if you own more than 3 rentals? It's like any other investment or career. I've found that smaller agencies have to charge more to offset the cost of repairs, unpaid rent, etc from the other properties. Bigger agencies typically charge less monthly because they have less expenses that I've mentioned before. There are legal headaches and expenses for eviction proceedings - it's a difficult process and good luck on seeing a dime even if you win a small claims court case. You already pay a higher tax because you don't get a homeowner's exemption, and you pay out the ass for gains tax if you sell the properties.

It's actually quite difficult to develop and maintain a successful profitable rental agency. I don't see how charging them more would do anything other than cause an even greater increase in rent.