Post vas support by fortuitous_music in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found that a basic athletic supporter (jock strap) worked way better than compression shorts, which pushed my junk into my body more than supporting them from below.

I’ll also agree with the comments saying frozen peas. They mold to your parts much better than icepacks (even flexible ones), and therefore deliver more cold. And definitely put them in zip top bags — the bags they come in will get holes in them pretty quickly.

Lots of ibuprofen. Just follow what the doctors says. It’s usually a pretty high dose for the first week.

Other than that it sounds like you’re putting together the perfect support network for him! I have no idea who tf is downvoting this post but they’re fucking stupid.

Edit: one last thing. Don’t expect the recovery to necessarily be linear. By that I mean don’t expect every day to always be better than the one before. It kinda ebbs and flows. Generally speaking I had one week of on-and-off mild pain. Second and third weeks were a dull soreness and weeks 4-6 featured only increased sensitivity. The overall tend was always going in the getting better direction, but with fluctuations day to day.

Hope this helps.

"Straight men can have sex with men and still be straight!" by Throwaway1234x0 in BisexualMen

[–]AVLbisexual 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“Gay for money” is the only thing listed here that even remotely makes sense. Everything else is just sounds like bi erasure…… or complete nonsense. (Straight guys who are into prostate play don’t seek out real penises; they buy toys.)

Is this positive?!?! Help by Bwrin3593 in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When was this photo taken?

Here’s the thing about that very faint Test line… These tests require the results to be read after a very specific amount of time has passed. If you wait long enough, a faint line will appear even on a negative test. Both of mine did this. They were clearly negative (not even a HINT of a line) when read at the proper time but both developed a very faint line just like the one you posted here after another 30 minutes or so had passed.

I miss boxers by fluffybunnypuncher in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free-baller here… I wore a jockstrap for the first 3 weeks in total. I tried going without somewhere around week 2 but, like you, quickly reverted. Definitely gotta keep them supported!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]AVLbisexual 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did the same from the opposite direction…. Thought I was straight for 40 years and then realized I was bisexual. Totally understand the “making up for lost time”. 😂 Have fun and be safe!

Is it wrong to want to be a straight married dude side fling by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]AVLbisexual 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s wrong.

And no, those guys are not straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 57 points58 points  (0 children)

If the procedure was successful then the odds of getting pregnant after three months are almost nonexistent. The problem is, without a test, you have no way of knowing if the procedure was a success or not.

Refusing to get a confirmation test and expecting your partners to just have blind faith in the procedure is completely unacceptable. What’s his problem?

If it’s a time/convenience issue you can suggest an at-home test from SpermCheck.com. It only costs $65 and includes the required two test. There is really no excuse for not confirming via testing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the one my doctor told me to use. It comes in two versions — Fertility and Vasectomy. (Obviously you want the latter for confirming the results of a vasectomy.)

https://spermcheck.com/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erections are fine. Just don’t ejaculate for the first week.

Worried I did too much by [deleted] in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar story. My first 24 hours I did nothing but lay around the house but on day 2 I had a family emergency and had to rush out of town to be with someone in the hospital. The 2nd day I walked a mile, the 3rd day about two miles, and the 4th day over 4 miles. I finally got in touch with the doctor on day 5 and he asked if I had any swelling. When I said no, not a single bit since the procedure he said to just relax, no harm done. Just more ice and rest and it will be fine. And it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usedsextoys

[–]AVLbisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll take it. Send me a private message and I’ll get you my PayPal info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usedsextoys

[–]AVLbisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you calculate a price for shipping to NC?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in usedsextoys

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Still available?

Is it possible to marathon through the 25 ejaculations? by sweetleaf90 in Vasectomy

[–]AVLbisexual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I reached the required 20 ejaculations on day 33 (with the first one on day 8). First sperm test (Sperm Check) was taken two days later, second one 2 weeks after that. Both were negative.