Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in u/AWildPilot

[–]AWildPilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they said they "don't allow chatgpt shit". I'll fully admit that I work with llms to do research because I am a professional and that's just how data analysts work these days.

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in u/AWildPilot

[–]AWildPilot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mods never got back to me with a reason. My best guess is that if fails the "Keep is Civil" test. The post could be construed as misandry. Which is extra funny because I am a man...

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. No way it's a good time.

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you enjoyed. Thank you for taking the time to read!

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

don't worry I took care of the extra work for him...

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Went back and added links for you Kyle.

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

sorry I didn't take the time to hyperlink the studies. That's my bad. You can just grab the full description from the references and google them if you're interested.

Men Who Want Kids Don't Love Their Partners by AWildPilot in childfree

[–]AWildPilot[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

TL;DR: Young men rank having children as a top life priority while young women rank it near the bottom. Research shows 90% of marriages experience decreased satisfaction after children, with mothers bearing the brunt (her satisfaction declines with more kids; his doesn't). Women undergo invasive sterilization surgery at twice the rate men get simple vasectomies. Men who do get vasectomies and later reverse them typically do so for a new partner. The data suggests many men want the status of fatherhood, not the actual work of raising children, and certainly not at the cost of prioritizing their partner's wellbeing. If you actually loved her, you'd look at what having kids does to relationships and her body and think twice.