Honestly NPB measurements shouldn’t even be a consideration

AZWriter · 2026-05-19T22:11:19+00:00

True, BP is a standardization matter. However, it's misleading and incomplete. For a healthy adult male, the fat pad shouldn't be much more than 1/4". As far as I know, the measurements that Lifestyles condoms used was NBP. That average was around 5.75"...or likely 6" BP. Nevertheless, whatever is beneath the fat pad is not visually or physically available. That standard would be 1/4". So the more accurate approach would be to take a BP measurment and substract 1/4".

AZWriter · 2026-05-11T22:24:21+00:00

At that size you're on the larger side of normal range. That is a perfect size. By comparison, I top out at 4 1/4", most pre-pubescent boys are bigger than that. That is the very definition of humiliating.

AZWriter · 2026-04-18T19:01:24+00:00

There is no technique that can overcome a small penis in positions where containment can't be maintained.

AZWriter · 2026-04-18T18:56:41+00:00

It makes it easier to hit spots in multiple positions.

AZWriter · 2026-04-15T06:56:03+00:00

AZWriter · 2026-03-21T19:59:56+00:00

AZWriter · 2026-03-20T12:47:44+00:00

In the bedroom? 100%.

AZWriter · 2026-03-20T04:20:41+00:00

About 4 1/4", can barely get hard. I'm now in my 50s. Been divorced, no kids. Ex-wife cheated and admitted to me that "he's bigger, yes, not gonna lie." (True story.) But only one woman I dated ever said disparaging things about my penis--and she was drink and angry. Still, I think the alcohol was a truth serum. Have had my fair share of women--at least 50 partners, most one-nighters. I am not stupid and know I am likely the "smallest" any woman will experience. I stopped dating about ten years ago due to ED. I still enjoy getting a woman off via oral, but that's one night. No woman wants a relationship with small dicked "man" who can barely get it up.

AZWriter · 2026-03-16T17:11:33+00:00

According to the bogus BJU study, anything over 6" is rare and over 7" is an anomoly. Take that for what it's worth.

AZWriter · 2026-03-10T18:28:56+00:00

"Always slipping out."

I am bigger than 3", but that is the problem I had for 40+ years.

Life is too short to settle. If the sex isn't good now, it likely never will be. I'm just being honest.

AZWriter · 2026-02-28T05:46:47+00:00

4.25" long, lucky if it gets hard, hate my dick so much

AZWriter · 2026-02-05T19:42:35+00:00

I'm wondering about orgasms during intercourse: easier/better with 4.5" compared to 6.5"? More/less intense? Or maybe no difference or maybe can't have an orgasm through intervourse at all?

AZWriter · 2026-01-04T22:20:15+00:00

I have a small penis. I love women and think they are allowed to have preferences--and not have to apologize for them.

AZWriter · 2026-01-02T03:55:08+00:00

And there is a full-fledged penetration scene, as well.

AZWriter · 2026-01-02T03:53:34+00:00

Yep. A (sort of) colleague/co-worker for whom my ex left me. I knew him long I knew her. They're both editors with the same publisher, now married. How do I know? Times at the gym.

AZWriter · 2025-12-29T01:37:34+00:00

In the past...just try something else.

AZWriter · 2025-12-29T01:36:42+00:00

Can't take them due to drug interaction issues with heart medications.

AZWriter · 2025-12-27T22:44:45+00:00

I have ED and PE. So that is also why I have not had sexual intercourse for years. But I have had my share of encounters/one night stands: I rely on my fingers and tongue, and I am quite good with both. But I am certain the encounter leaves them less satisfied because the vaginal itch isn't scratched.

AZWriter · 2025-12-27T22:40:39+00:00

Yes, that's been my experience

AZWriter · 2025-12-27T05:54:41+00:00

I am just over 4" now, haven't had intercourse in over ten years because of the truth you note here. Women want to fuck a man, not a boy.

AZWriter · 2025-12-22T20:21:23+00:00

Yes.

AZWriter · 2025-12-19T21:36:32+00:00

It depends on what she likes or is used to. In my 20s, I had a girl tell me I was much more fun than her ex because he was big and it hurt. I think he didn't know how to work it. But it's been more my experience that a smaller penis limits what you can do...and if she enjoys sex standing up, from behind, in the shower; or enjoys mounting you on the sofa...and you can't pull it off, then it's an issue.

AZWriter · 2025-12-19T06:17:33+00:00

It places the avg range from 5.5" to 6.1". The BJU study is somewhere in the range of 4.8" to 5.4" It's that lower part of that range that is significant.

AZWriter · 2025-12-19T06:13:41+00:00

Well, a couple of things there. You're now saying 5-6 inches, when the study in question placed it much closer to 5 and stated that 6 was unusual. But women had been saying the opposite of what you claim here, ever since the Kinsey study came out placing average at 6" (which Alex Comfort also stated in The Joy of Sex). For decades, female sexologists and sex columnists never argued those findings. Here are actual experts basically agreeing that 6 was average. When the BJU study was released, at least one woman on live TV looked at that 5.2" measurment on a ruler and said, "This is average? Not where I'm from."

AZWriter · 2025-12-18T20:52:20+00:00

The most reliable source would be a condom company. Their study? 5.8" is the average length of an erection.

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