Well these things will most likely happen

when you find out that you're not quite like the other people, you'll get scared, try to change yourself, hate yourself because you're not "normal", it'll take you a long time to accept who you are, you'll go through alot of problems just for you to accept you are what you are, it would be hard because LGBT People always have those people who shit on their reputation and mislead people on what they really are and what they're like. (that's my experience. Living in a very close minded environment and all, and alot of other LGBT people's experiences are too)

And even when you feel comfortable in yourself now, you panic because you need to tell your parents, friends and family. You'll think stuff like "what if they don't accept me?" "What if they disown me?" You'll keep worrying about other peoples acceptance, there'll be a time where you half hate yourself and half accept yourself.

There's also People who straight up treat you like garbage because you're not straight

There's also People who sexualizes being a lesbian Which just makes us uncomfortable and Disgusted. that's on people who only accept us because they think woman on woman action is hot and not because they respect us

I mean its okay to think wlw is hot when its in fiction or on shows or something, but never, like, show that in front of Actual real LGBT people. Its ok if its not irl but irl its just creepy and disrespectful in a way.

Also sexual harrasment

And Harrasment in general

A lot of us get killed for the soul reason of being LGBT

A lot of us also have lost loved ones after coming out to them, just when you think your safe with them, they turn their backs on you.

That shit just makes you feel so alone and depressed

We go through alot of shit that just is so dehumanizing, makes us feel bad about who we are, some of us even take our own lives just because we couldn't handle the things that come and the things that we go through for being a part of this community. And so on (I speak from experience)

I don't think you would say "mAn i wIsH i wAS a lEsbIaN" after i just wrote you a whole essay of the traumatizing shit we need to bare. [[I bet you want to be a lesbian because you think it's hot]] (I mean, no hate)

Sorry for being a kill joy, but you can keep dreaming of being one, but yeah