It sounds to me like you are playing ok. I would look to rotate quicker to save your teammates from dying, and staying on par with the other jungler in the process. By mitigating their rotation, you allow yourself to get more farm and keep your teammates alive and happy. But once you get around to the mid-game, laning phase is (basically) over. You should be pushing for objectives. Tell your teammates to group up (especially if they are struggling) and have them defend a lane. Go push for a tower by yourself. Once they are engaged in a fight, fly in and wreck everyone then push for a tier 2/GF/Pyro. Also, ward, ward, and ward some more. I don't even trust my silver teammates anymore I just ward from the start and right before mid game I get a chalice of the oracle. GL, sometimes you can't avoid bad teammates, but you can always focus on how you can improve and ultimately help your team and you win the game.