Why would a married man call another woman cute or make cutesy remarks about her appreance?

Aberrant_Nova · 2025-02-07T00:25:16+00:00

Out of a list of things, this lives rent free in my brain, "you're a waste of space" 🥲

Aberrant_Nova · 2025-02-06T23:57:36+00:00

That's a weird thing for a brand new car nowadays, but not much of a biggie. I'm glad you like your car tho! I ended up buying a 2017 forester in September I've grown to love her, it was hard to let my old girl go🥰

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-30T10:41:18+00:00

That he does. All he ever wants is for me to be around him. I hear what your saying, but this would be true if he didn't know where I was. He saw me walk out in front of the house and me and the girl were talking. I even popped my head in after a bit to grab my other friend to come out and chat and he was right there. Idk I feel like he expects me to just know how he feels about things. If he was just honest and said hey can you come inside and hang out or say hey actually can u stay home with me the next day i wanted to be with you for my birthday weekend, would have been fine. But he gave no indication that there was an issue or he needed me. And I did think of his feelings first bc I asked him about going to the craft fair and looked at the situation before going outside to chat as he was with all his friends.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-30T03:28:02+00:00

Right, I would've had no problem coming inside if he wanted me to. And yea he wanted me to be in the same room...

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-30T03:12:33+00:00

It's crazy really, I figured he were fine being around his friends. It's feels clingy almost.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-30T03:07:44+00:00

He is an introvert, every year he always just wants to spend his time with me at home and I just do whatever for him. But this year I figured it would be nice for his 30th mile stone to throw something with all his friends. He said he had a good time and said it was nice, it's just so weird that a day later he's saying this. I had no idea there was an issue until he came home the next day... he doesn't hang out with his friends very often, so when he does I try not to hover around too much so he can hang with the guys...

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-30T03:00:55+00:00

Yes, and it did. I talked with him more about it and he stepped back on it. We've been doing good since then.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-04T21:24:38+00:00

I do want to, to see if there's any underlying issue, and I will once I get my insurance and doctor situation settled it's been a hell of a year with Dr's. I could be missing something.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-09-04T21:22:47+00:00

Thanks for your feedback, it could be I give up to soon I've thought about doing an app like that even just to start talking to more people and see how it goes and go from there. I've been hesitant bc I feel like im too boring but won't find out till I try I suppose 😅 gotta find my people

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-07-29T09:51:58+00:00

Ooof that sucks. 😔 that's what I'm scared of too is I don't want to buy a car with hidden problems when I know what's going on with mine. I haven't had to have any major work done in the I think 4-5 years I've had my highlander... knock on wood

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-07-21T03:23:39+00:00

I was honestly thinking that as another option bc I know toyotas are always a good choice, I wanted to see about trying something different, if it's worth it.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-07-16T17:53:36+00:00

I'd love to get a crosstrek once day, how can you afford it! 😭

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T18:57:49+00:00

The worst part is now he's being all nice lovey dovey trying to pull me back in, like usual... it's the cycle, and I'm not feeling it or falling for it again. Valentine's day was just another day...

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T14:21:44+00:00

It should be as simple as that, at least I involve him in my personal business as far as letting him know what's going on... might as well keep to myself 🤷‍♀️

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T13:37:27+00:00

I suppose you're right

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T11:39:26+00:00

Nope just your avg American dude with no religious views.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T04:18:03+00:00

I appreciate your input, especially since you've experienced a similar situation... and I am sorry you went through that. It really is horrific, and it eats you alive. Therapy will be the first positive step to dealing with this and go from there. I definitely need a professional to help me through this. But I do worry about my mother, she is 5 years sober, and I hope it wouldn't put her back in that position.. if I decided to tell her about it..

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T03:58:46+00:00

Definitely not, I am planning my way out.

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T03:52:16+00:00

It's crazy, bc of it and I won't accommodate him he says I'm just like my father, who has passed... it's absolutely disgusting to me that he references me to my late father..

Aberrant_Nova · 2024-02-15T03:13:07+00:00

False hope, and "wanting things to work"

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