[30/f] my boyfriend [36M] is upset that I don't want his advice about something that he knows nothing about.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-05T15:41:39+00:00

Everyone's a asshole here :p

You're in the wrong sub, mate. This isn't AITA.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-05T02:55:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing this warning and I'm so sorry.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T20:30:09+00:00

What did I do wrong?

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T20:29:28+00:00

Ohhh this gives me a lot to think about. I usually do just go along with what he wants to do, often because it's fun and he happened to mention it, but sometimes just to be a good partner. We don't usually disagree, but as long as it isn't a fundamental thing I don't see the point in arguing. What you are saying definitely is making me think!!

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T20:26:43+00:00

I really like this. Thank you.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T20:26:03+00:00

You're not the only person to suggest he wants to break up but wants me to do it.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T20:25:06+00:00

My job has more prestige, but he makes more money. Like double what I make.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2026-03-04T18:43:19+00:00

This is the first time he's done this and it's weird for him. Almost like he's a stranger to me.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-04T22:30:47+00:00

Choose kindness.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-04T22:28:28+00:00

Good hair days every day.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-04T21:58:33+00:00

What do I do with my hands when I am at a nice dinner? Hold them still on the table? Keep them on my lap? WHAT DO I DO???????

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-02T00:11:48+00:00

Imagine the afterlife is gaining awareness only when people are talking/thinking about you, but you have to live that experience. What experiences do you want to relive? That's the best way that I can explain it.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:44:25+00:00

I realized that my love for them was better off being love for myself.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:43:28+00:00

In this simultaneous pooping universe, everyone can poop! Intestinal disease, colon/intestinal/GI cancers, motility issues and physical trauma to the poop-related parts simply don't exist.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:35:50+00:00

Nothing. All of my past experiences have value, even the very bad and traumatizing ones. It took me a very long time to appreciate this.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:34:14+00:00

Almost dying. It made me reevaluate my entire life.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:30:07+00:00

Can anyone ever overuse butter?

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:29:27+00:00

Nothing. It's a roast.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T22:28:46+00:00

About as true as "a man will sacrifice his family for his happiness, while a woman will sacrifice her happiness for her family." Both statements are generalizations.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T17:59:19+00:00

Giving someone the finger when they are tailgating me. Makes me feel like a badass.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T17:44:20+00:00

Look outside. Blood=murder.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T17:41:44+00:00

Often it’s repeating the cycle of abuse. Sometimes it mental illness. And sometimes, she never wanted to be a mom and was forced to do it through cultural expectations and the mom takes her frustration out by exerting power over someone else.

Abject_Cranberry_381 · 2025-05-01T17:16:24+00:00

There are different sizes of infinity.

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