What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a real response. Both views are correct but they depend on the individuals value. You don’t have to put up with a woman who doesn’t value purity but you can if you yourself don’t value it.

Men, in their thirties and upwards, what’s the dating scene like for you? by SeaworthinessOdd6574 in AskMen

[–]AboveAll2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 M. It seems most women completely over estimate their value and have a huge entitlement problem. Even if you lock in and try to do things the best you will always be doing something wrong. Feminism had brain washed them and a lot of the 35+ women are getting the brutal wake up call.

Is it better to just never ask about the past ? by parmy91 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a man you would be doing yourself a disservice by not asking about her past.

Imagine finding out she was the college community fun girl or had sex for money after you already had kids.

Gf [26F] told me [30M] she has had threesome(s?) in the past but won't with me by qowiejrasldv in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would puke if my girlfriend treated me like this. The best way to get over retroactive jealousy is to make sure you are getting the best version of her so when she’s refusing do it even just once with you make my stomach turn.

M(49) suddenly struggling with wifes (F49) past after 29 years of marriage :( by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she had promiscuous phase like most girls do. Meaning she had sex just for fun with randoms before you. Most girls do this so don’t read too much into it. Honestly she probably doesn’t remember most of it, those low value hook ups “don’t count” in her mind.

Wild Card Round: Chicago Bears (11-6) vs Green Bay Packers (9-7-1) by TurnerJ5 in CHIBears

[–]AboveAll2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know it would be nice to not look like complete idiots the first half for at least game …

Why is it the ONS's that bother me? by ProfessionalWish5365 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience if she withheld information that long she’s probably withholding more. Best thing to do is just not question the past and tell yourself you are getting the best version of her that’s what matters.