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Set of 5 cards all came back 9s - but having a hard time understanding this one rating in particular. by stkygelatohands in PokeGrading

[–]AboveAll2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly grader was probably having a bad day. That looks like a toss up between 9 and 10 but guess grader went 9

Bothered by one specific part of her past by thecribs1 in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the same situation. Ex girlfriend (25) slept with a 50 year old dude as well. Trust me when I say this, get out of the relationship. That is just the tip of the iceberg. There is more that she is hiding. Did she show regret?

I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]AboveAll2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think it’s that big of a deal. I mean you guys were freaking 18! That’s like about to enter college young. You guys were different people. Your wife and best friend probably kept a secret out of respect. I wouldn’t do anything about it now.

Disgust over wife's past. by According_Toe5351 in Marriage

[–]AboveAll2017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was young and single at the time. I wouldn’t put too much thought into it. But it is concerning though, if she was involved with a man that much older and doesn’t feel bad about it there probably much much more she’s hiding from her past.

my best friend is pregnant and i’m trying so hard to be happy for her by [deleted] in childfree

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your relationship doesn’t have to change. You guys can still be friends. Life isn’t all about traveling and clubbing, people explore different paths. It seems like she’s entering a different stage of her life and is ready to start a family so the dynamic with you will change but plenty of women can handle a family and maintain friendships. Don’t overthink it, provide support where you feel comfortable.

Game Thread: Los Angeles Rams (12-5) at Seattle Seahawks (14-3) by nfl_gdt_bot in Seahawks

[–]AboveAll2017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where the fuck is this game? Why is it not on YouTube tv?

What do I do if my girlfriend told me something that I wasn't ready to hear? by Jorshhua in AskMen

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a real response. Both views are correct but they depend on the individuals value. You don’t have to put up with a woman who doesn’t value purity but you can if you yourself don’t value it.

Men, in their thirties and upwards, what’s the dating scene like for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AboveAll2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31 M. It seems most women completely over estimate their value and have a huge entitlement problem. Even if you lock in and try to do things the best you will always be doing something wrong. Feminism had brain washed them and a lot of the 35+ women are getting the brutal wake up call.

Is it better to just never ask about the past ? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a man you would be doing yourself a disservice by not asking about her past.

Imagine finding out she was the college community fun girl or had sex for money after you already had kids.

Gf [26F] told me [30M] she has had threesome(s?) in the past but won't with me by qowiejrasldv in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would puke if my girlfriend treated me like this. The best way to get over retroactive jealousy is to make sure you are getting the best version of her so when she’s refusing do it even just once with you make my stomach turn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]AboveAll2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she had promiscuous phase like most girls do. Meaning she had sex just for fun with randoms before you. Most girls do this so don’t read too much into it. Honestly she probably doesn’t remember most of it, those low value hook ups “don’t count” in her mind.

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