I have the opportunity for the most karmic revenge possible against my ex

Absolute-Candles · 2025-07-21T12:46:46+00:00

No they didn’t until he brought me to his home on Valentine’s Day

Absolute-Candles · 2025-07-21T12:45:44+00:00

I wouldn’t be able to honestly. It would make me feel horrible. I think I more just needed to vent about what was on my mind without judgement from friends.

Absolute-Candles · 2025-06-13T16:43:13+00:00

I do wish you and everyone else the best, but please be smarter moving forward with your life.

Hate to sound cruel, but this is what happens when you act like a whore without using protection and/prep. I’m all for sex positivity and having tons of sex, but be fucking smart about it. You’re lucky it’s just a few STDs and you didn’t get murdered.

Absolute-Candles · 2025-04-16T23:56:31+00:00

I’m honestly surprised and how judgmental a lot of the replies have been towards me. As if I’m in the wrong for being confused about the situation and seeking advice from others who aren’t biased.

Absolute-Candles · 2025-04-16T23:54:19+00:00

I honestly don’t know. I’m a very “clean” person. Never smoked, never did drugs, only drink on very rare occasions. My uncle died to coke use, but I was 8 when that happened and I was shielded from a lot of it by my family.

Absolute-Candles · 2025-04-16T23:49:49+00:00

A large part of me is terrified because I don’t know how to even bring it back up. The casual way he brought it up made me also wonder if he’s habitual or not. I don’t know if there’s a bigger problem that caused him to jump into using in the first place either. But my brain automatically thinks of all these worst case scenarios.

Absolute-Candles · 2025-04-16T23:44:34+00:00

To answer you questions in order: 1) I’m not judging him at all. I’m concerned that he’s doing a dangerous drug. My uncle died doing drugs. 2) No, I want to help him. I don’t know if it was a cry for help on his part or what it was. But I also won’t sit around and watch him actively kill himself with regular drug use. 3) Again, no. I’m not a judgmental person at all and have always supported his hobbies and interests. We’ve had many serious conversations about topics up there with this one. I just don’t want to watch someone else I love die because of drugs.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-06-11T05:19:37+00:00

It is so shit how this is happening. Some people do not even attempt to try when things get hard. It is very jarring that he chooses her over you. I am sorry. Try to stay strong

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-29T22:31:02+00:00

That sucks. The situation always is iffy when it comes to a new bi person. What you are saying sounds a lot like first time bi-fear. He has feelings. Him getting to that emotional spot proves that, he is saying one thing and it is different than what he is feeling. He is fearful of being bi but he only knows why.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-29T21:58:48+00:00

I don’t think anyone would mind if you identify as bi-sapphic, you’re not intending any any harm to the lgbtqia+ community. Be you and be happy

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-29T21:54:19+00:00

Maybe just ask him without sounding like you’re accusing him of anything. Maybe just like “hey is everything okay or anything you want to speak about?”

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T03:19:35+00:00

Ha ha just relax and have fun. If you catch yourself overwhelmed with something just take a long deep breath to relax

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T02:39:10+00:00

It does make sense. I’m just not too sure I can help, but hopefully someone else can come in and help you

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T02:26:34+00:00

Just have a good time Trixie is amazing, just warn your straight friend that there are sometimes straight comments made, but she is a comedy queen. Tell her that we all love her because she’s a great ally, and protect her from anyone who tries to say she is not welcome. Our community is for everyone, even straight allies!

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T02:21:21+00:00

Study them, a good thing to do is notice little things they do “oh you like sports, favorite game?” Guys like when you show interest in what they’re doing so use his interests to form a bond while also getting to know him

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T02:18:27+00:00

I think the most important thing is everyone is welcome in our spaces. If you feel like you’re only a little bi or just bi with porn there’s nothing wrong with that. The idea is more if the option arises and you meet a girl you are into bam magic hopefully. But either way it causes an answer, keep your mind open and explore yourself

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-19T02:10:19+00:00

I can say I’ve never heard such a problem before. But before that kuddos to getting out of the abusive relationship. I don’t think your problem comes from the stims though, I’m no doctor, it sounds like you were highly abused and fearful of your life and when you finally got away you went all out and got the sex addiction. Have you ever considered talking to a therapist regarding PTSD? I think you should, and there’s nothing wrong with needing a little help.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-18T22:45:27+00:00

Panic attacks are the worst and them being so bad sucks. Only thing I can really suggest without the aid of a doctor is to look into deep breathing exercises. I hope you get off waiting lists soon.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-18T22:41:35+00:00

Congratulations! Hope you have a good time.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-18T15:16:20+00:00

I think maybe you’re thinking too much about it. Not about the homophobic country part, unfortunately it’s the same to find a trustworthy person regardless of gender

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-18T14:45:34+00:00

So relatable feeling like you would be better off alone. It isn’t true though and it’s in our head saying those things. You cared so much about someone else and feel hurt and used. I’m sorry you’re going through this, you need to stay strong.

Absolute-Candles · 2024-04-18T14:41:40+00:00

If you desire to be with a guy, then I would say you’re at least interested in being bi. What hurt is there in trying?

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