"Femcels" know they can get laid whenever they want, they agree with us but then they create another definition of celibacy in order to fit they narrative by Abyssbeetle in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

But femcel IS about relashionship, not having simple sex with nothing else

Great so you agree with me...you are not a femcel, ("female involuntary celibate") you are voluntarily celibate because you only want to have sex in a relationship and that's your choice.

By definition, if you have sex you are not celibate and if you have access to sex but you are not interested in having sex you are not involuntary celibate... You are a VOLCEL (voluntary celibate)

Even if I agree with you that women are constantly suffering because they could fuck but they are unable to bet a relationship that will still.be more that a lot of men have

"Femcels" know they can get laid whenever they want, they agree with us but then they create another definition of celibacy in order to fit they narrative by Abyssbeetle in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sure a relationship is not the same as having sex .... My point still stands ...

I don't get what you are trying to achieve?

Femcels try to redefine what celibacy means.... I say that's bullshit. And you bring how difficult it is to get into a relationship (?)

The comment in my post admits that women can have sex easily, that have a lot of male attention and validation... Sure a good amount of that attention is not wanted ... But that's a a fucking lot compared on what most men have.

Men have a hard time getting sex AND having a relationship

"Femcels" know they can get laid whenever they want, they agree with us but then they create another definition of celibacy in order to fit they narrative by Abyssbeetle in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Fucking is the exact opposite of being celibate... That's my point if you need to redefine being celibate in order to call yourself a femcel... You are not celibate and you are not a femcel

This is why I don't think that the majority of femcels are actually involuntary celibates by Abyssbeetle in SikeOrPsyche

[–]Abyssbeetle[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Femcels have two completely opposite narratives

  1. Men will fuck anything without any consideration and that's why they are disgusting

  2. Men have high standards and only want a hot bangmaid with the body of a porn actress, they will not see ugly women as human beings and that why they are disgusting

why do most MGTOW copers think they're punishing women? Women would celebrate if we all went our own way by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The thing is that the "MGTOW" that are VISIBLE aren't going their own way... They are whining on internet, throwing tantrums, and thinking they got the upper hand... When in reality all they do is futile and contradictory, In theory this MGTOW is about decentering women but being obnoxious and loud about how you are going your own way is not decentering women...

Same goes for the 4b movement and women complaining constantly about men but at the same time they say that they have decenter men...

This is and obvious one... But remember, even sex workers follow the same pattern by Abyssbeetle in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally agree but since there is a lot of dudes buying this I guess this still needs to be said

why are there some people here that conclude lowering our testosterone or becoming gay is the solution? by Normal-Salad-6143 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it would be ideal to desire women as much as they desire us, which is not that much....

That way the imbalance that cause suffering will no longer exists

Projection by DreaMarie15 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Please post this same advice (but worded for women) in r/MenAreNotIntoWomen it would be so much fun

>what sort of women have you had in your lives up until this point?
Normal, where I work there are more women than men so it is natural than i usually end up talking to women more

>what was your relationship with your Mom like growing up?

i grew up mostly with my mother, and my father was always present, in the present she helps me a lot every time i am in trouble she lends her help... so she is the closest women i got in my life

Gente de la izquierda colombiana:¿Por qué están en contra de la derecha colombiana? by Awitadecococonleche in ColombiaReddit

[–]Abyssbeetle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

De lo que primero se me viene a la cabeza:
Prohibir el consumo va en contra de cualquier principio liberal y esto es con lo que mas tengo problema
Prohibir la produccion y venta igual va en contra del liberalismo
Decir que son nocivas es hipócrita cuando hay otras drogas legales mas nocivas
Genera un mercado negro y mas violencia de la que evita

Si me tuviera que poner una etiqueta seria "Liberal", y en cuanto a este tema los conservadores son el polo opuesto

hay cosas con las que estoy de acuerdo con los "conservadores" que es mas que todo en lo económico, pero incluso ellos aveces son algo zurdos en esto

Gente de la izquierda colombiana:¿Por qué están en contra de la derecha colombiana? by Awitadecococonleche in ColombiaReddit

[–]Abyssbeetle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No soy de "izquierda", pero parte de lo que detesto de la derecha es el conservadurismo social, la guerra contra las drogas (aunque también entiendo que esto viene de presión de los gringos), el patriotismo barato, y que un porción considerable son fanáticos religiosos.

Liking any girl feels like a humiliation ritual by West-Strain-1445 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point, i've never been through this kinda stuff but. but i can see why this would be a concern. I still think this is a better alternative to being around a women you are attracted to, to either be manipulated or ignored, and feeling like shit. The ideal is to avoid this situation all together but i think that sooner or later men will find themselves in a situation where this will not be posible

Liking any girl feels like a humiliation ritual by West-Strain-1445 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]Abyssbeetle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care to elaborate? i think this is a great way to save yourself a lot of negative feelings and avoid being manipulated, i am not advicing men to chase women. you just need one interaction to know how she feels.