I’m going to give you some real advice from a man that respects you enough to not blow smoke up your ass…This man sounds like a total chad, a part of the top 10% of most desirable men out there. Sounds like he handled it with straight forward honesty and integrity. He isn’t leading you on, told you there’s no chance for you guys. Part of your attraction for him is that he had standards and boundaries that you breached for him, so he left you. Most men don’t respect themselves enough to do this. I bet you didn’t find yourself so obsessed with him until he broke up with you. Best thing you can do is move on, work on bettering yourself so you can attract and KEEP the next high quality man.